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I am new to all this. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. As soon as we first had sex, he told me he was into kinky stuff and was quite assertive about encouraging me to explore it with him. He is a sexual submissive although he is very assertive outside the bedroom. He has told me that he likes to be bound, spanked, whipped, penetrated, gagged, hooded, strap-on-ed and generally bossed about in the bedroom. He isn't really a masochist but likes me to take control.
I am not sure about this. I never really gave it much thought and assumed it was all rather sick and disordered but because I love him and because I am open minded, I was willing to give it a go. He has just bought me 4 books on Female Dominance to read. He has bought me a wardrobe of kinky clothes and has lots of toys himself.
I feel a little overwhelmed by it all. I don't like feeling pushed around into trying something.
I am here to learn and to get advice. Have any of you out there had similar experiences? Can you explain to me why he likes this. Is it sick? Does it lead to more extreme things? Am I dominant? Can I be? What if I am not? an I become dominant? If I am not, are we incompatible?? I'd appreciate some experienced advice.
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