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Hello fellow kinksters. I am mid 40s, single, and I feel a deep need to submit and be guided by a Woman I trust and care for and who feels the same for me. I do have my list of kinks which I have filled out in my profile, but primarily I desire to live a FLR as a long term lifestyle. I wish to serve on many levels, be compliant with my Mistresses desires, gain structure and leadership from Her. I do have my own strengths, personality, and mind. I am no doormat, but I know I need a true leader to love and submit to. I am not submissive in my day to day life. In fact, I am very independent with a love for personal liberty and my own set of rules to live by, but at the same time I realize if I found a Woman to trust and submit to I would be the most fulfilled I have ever been and could reach my fullest potential. I am of course employed and live on my own, but just not complete yet. As independent as I am I need structure and challenge from my true love. It has been a long road to gain the clarity and understanding of myself to state this fact so succinctly, but I think better late than never.



In return I offer submission, devotion, loyalty, service, a talent for sensitive physical sensuality and contact, an intelligence for problem solving, although I never had the structure or inclination for academics other than science and a curiosity for understanding the nature of our existence and the universe around us. Also if you are easy going and enjoy irreverent humor I will definitely be able to make you laugh.



I am looking for kink and fun play of course, and not every relationship has to be for love, but ideally what I would like is a true long-lasting relationship with someone to fall in love with and obey.



I am by nature a private person and I feel no need to share every aspect of my life with everyone around me (except that special someone), but at the same time people who do know and judge can respectfully shove it up their asses. Nonetheless discretion is important to me online, so if you would like a pic, I can definitely send some. I am a masculine guy in my normal life and to look at, but it belies my submissive and kinky side.



I would also really like to learn more about the kink community of Philadelphia. I am not in the scene but would really like to meet some like minded people, make friends, and grow as a submissive.