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I am a healthy mature man, single and unattached, seeking the bonding and intimacy that is created in an Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR). I seek a woman who also appreciates the connection this manifests and who has the desire to induce lactation. I have studied how lactation can be best stimulated and I am ready to make the commitment to follow one or both of the two formulas that I give further down. Breasts are intelligent, probably more so than most guys on this site who only have balls for brains. Breasts know the difference between a real mouth and a mechanical pumping device. It takes a real human mouth to induce milk production. It doesn't matter how old you are, or the size of your breasts, or if you have never lactated before -- breasts are made to produce milk for human consumption and want to feel a live mouth sucking on each of their nipples. A real eager suckling mouth, with strong lips and tongue and cheeks, triggers the secretion of the hormone oxytocin that will activate milk production. This is the best way to start lactating! Besides, do you really want to bond with a mechanical device?
Oxytocin is also known as the Love Hormone because it bonds two people together in a deeply loving connection. This doesn't mean it will solve all relationship issues, but it will create a strong emotional and physical foundation between two adults, as potent and unbreakable as the bonding that occurs between a nursing mother and her newborn baby. However, the type of ANR I seek is not a "maternal/infantile" arrangement. An ANR creates a powerful union between two mature adult individuals who want to share a very deep mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual connection.
Most adults become lactose-intolerant soon after their early teens. This is a problem when trying to form an ANR since the receiver will quickly get acid indigestion -- definitely not pleasant or conducive to ongoing suckling. A few of us, fortunately, have the gene for digesting milk throughout our lives. I have such a gene and have been a milk lover all my life. Milk is my favorite beverage and I have always wanted to suckle fresh warm milk from a lover's beautiful breasts. To have her creamy essences go into my stomach, be absorbed into my blood, then pumped through my heart to every living cell, has to be an incredible experience!
I realize there is a tremendous commitment that is necessary in an ANR relationship, since once your milk is flowing, it needs to be drained multiple times a day. I happen to have a very unique situation where I can work from any place where there is a reliable Internet connection, i.e., I can do so from your home, or even while travelling. I am employed standard hours, M-F, 8-5, but working from home would allow me to take 15 minute breaks when you come up and shove a nipple into my mouth; definitely suckle for an hour at noon for a lunchtime feeding; and be ready to suckle more at 5 pm when I log out of work, which is the best way to relax in my humble opinion. Later, I could suckle your nipples until we fall asleep, and awake you in the morning with more suckling and licking. Then there are the extended suckling sessions on the weekends to really pleasure your gorgeous milk-laden breasts.
So how is lactation induced? The references I have checked recommend two similar approaches, but different in timing, each boiling down to a simple formula: One-half hour of suckling per nipple three to four times a day; or, fifteen minutes of suckling per nipple six to eight times a day. Following either of these will induce milk production in the amount of cupfuls from each breast within two months. A combination of the two approaches can be adjusted to fit schedules. (More suckling is always better!) This is definitely a commitment between both partners to three or four hours (and more) or suckling every day for as long as the ANR is embraced. (Much, much more is always the best!) An ANR is so intimate, so bonding, so nurturing, that it can last for years.
Thus, a man and a woman in a committed ANR will be physically connected for extended periods multiple times a day, every day, without exception, for years and years. This is possible because of the trance-like state that occurs from adult nursing, for both giver and receiver. It is like a deep profound meditation as we close our eyes and focus on the sensory activity. Time disappears; serenity pervades; hearts merge into one; pleasure becomes bliss; bliss becomes ecstasy! When your milk comes in, you will see my eyes roll-up into my head and hear me whimpering and moaning in delight. Keeping me very horny for you, mercilessly teased and denied, is a motivating secret, since the hornier I am, the more oral I become. One of my hands can be available to caress your free breast, or finger your wet mons and pulsing clit, or slide a dildo or vibrator in and out, so your experience during suckling is always orgasmic! You should have all the orgasms, while I get all the milk!
Once lactation is flowing strongly, I will be nourished so much that I will need to give up one or two of my regular meals of solid food each day, as well as needing frequent exercise and workouts, least I get fat from all the calories I am receiving from your rich creamy breast milk. There can even be fasts from solid food where I am nourished solely on your milk for extended periods. I am open to a Domme who wants an ANR, or a Hucow who desires her breasts to become udders, or a younger submissive who want to be trained as a Milkmaid for her Daddy, or simply an woman who enjoys having her nipples sucked and would like to lactate! Beauty is in the mouth of the beholder!
A word about the cuckolding aspect of my username. I am very monogamous, even in a non-ANR relationship. I bond very strongly with a partner. Yet monogamy is not a requirement for you. I have been in a cuckolding relationship before where my partner had five other male lovers and several female lovers, even though I was the one she chose with whom to live. I have also been in several oral-only relationships (a few which embraced non-reciprocation) and have even been locked up in a chastity device for extended periods of time (although chastity is not what I necessarily seek). Personally, I believe that next to an ANR, a cuckolding relationship is the most loving, where a man is faithfully devoted to his partner's needs and pleasures, while she has the freedom to be sexually active with others as much as she desires. It is really the love for each other which builds the strength in an open relationship. Frankly, there are guys who you may just want to fuck, but only one man who you choose to sleep beside each night as primary to suckle your breasts and orally pleasure you as often as you need. Cuckolding is not a requirement for me if you are also monogamous, especially if you appreciate how orally-obsessive I am and how I view my tongue as my primary sex organ. I can definitely guarantee your utter orgasmic satisfaction each and every day after suckling your nipples. The primary rule in the relationship is simply this: Whenever you need to be suckled or licked, I will orally serve you as much as you desire or need or demand with enthusiasm and love! It is not as much about domination and submission as it is about lactation and suckling!