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Hello, my name is Lance. I'm not a "lifestyler" by any means, but I do still see BDSM as a serious, and very intimate form of play and relationship. In my daily life I am not submissive by any means. In the bedroom on the other hand I usually feed off of my partners vibe. If she is in a submissive mood I am happy to accommodate, and if she is feeling Dominate I will take my place as the submissive. I am experienced in both, not seasoned but also not a newbie. As a Dom I've been told that I am strict and spank a bit too hard. And as a submissive I can be a bit bratty and slighty persuasive.
Outside of BDSM... I like to have fun and enjoy life. I believe a day that you do not smile and laugh is simply a day wasted. .........ok i think thats enough for now, any questions just ask. acuna-matata and enjoy a smile.

2/25/2009 1:31:45 PM
Hmmm, what to write???? I don't know.... The only thing i can think about is that I have the most awesome Mistress ever. Maybe it's because shes my first and only Mistress ever. But, i have never met another woman like her. She is kind, compasionate, desirable, hands down the most generous woman in the universe, understanding, playful, fun, funny, strict but not too head strong with it. I belive she just may be the one meant for me, you know how i feel for you goddess. I miss your lips against mine already, and on a side note. I'm happy that i pleased you on saturday night at mistress jens house. I was more than thrilled to be your pet infront of people who i hope we can consider new friends.
6/28/2008 11:53:45 AM
I believe that this life is a constant learning experience. If you do not learn something new, or smile, or laugh then that is simply a day wasted. Life is short and meant to be enjoyed but thats one of those things that is simply easier said than done. I think that I'm still coming to terms and finding out what it is that I ultimatly seek, and to be honest I'm pretty damn ok with that. Why rush it, ya know.... oh well... acuna-matata, enjoy a smile, and have a pleasant day.
4/15/2008 11:59:50 AM
Emotions are a weird thing, ya know? Some of them scream, yet others whisper. Some of them linger on in the dark like a mellow breaze whisteling through an alley way, yet others just fade away like sunset into night. Should one listen to what their heart says or give it the cold shoulder and continue on with the motionless fight. A battle between reality and everything else, a battle between the ground and the sky where the rain reigns supreme on both sides. Oh well, that is life i suppose, take it as it comes or... well i think thats the only option, i have yet to come across another.
1/9/2008 7:07:02 PM

say what you want, say what you mean
question yourself, are you really what you seem?
say what you want, say what you mean
question yourself, are you really what you dream?

it's the chorus from a song ;
dispatch - hey...hey...