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i'm a new sub and sometimes can be a real dom without any experience yet but have become more and more interested for two long, self-searching years. Prior to reaching this point, i viewed my submissive nature (vanillaly) and my occassional dom nature as a shortcoming, a flaw that i should suppress and be ashamed of. i've felt very lost in my life, especially in my relationships, for a long time as a result. Fortunately, my limited exploration in bdsm has given me back the acceptence i never felt i had from others and especially the way i see myself. i believe it is in my personality to try and eventually be in a 24/7 relationship once i have identified my interests and limits and can actually have a conversation about them with confidence.
i created this profile primarily to chat with those people and to feel more like i'm part of this community. At this time, it is not my goal or expectation to find or be found by a Mistress/ slave. i do believe it will happen slowly and steadly in fate and things that are "meant to be" and so i won't categorically rule anything out. If by chance the right one were to come along then i wouldn't be opposed. i can say that she will be younger than me, smarter than me. i think my friends would say i am friendly, approachable, smart and charming.