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First and foremost Im looking for a relationship, not sex. Im not looking for a romantic relationship, at least not primarily, but I hope to find someone who approaches this relationship with the same amount of seriousness. Sex may very much be a part of this relationship, but the relationship itself is first and foremost.
Im married to a beautiful and intelligent kinky twinky boy who I share a wonderful life with in the isles of Scotland. Hes been fairly successful in entrepenurialship, and we are very comfortable. We are extremely open with each other, he is well aware of this need I have that he cannot provide for.
For a while now Ive been trying to find a daddymentorSir to take me under his wing as his boy, hopefully for long term (I am also very open to dominant women, or trans, but fair warning I have littleno experience as such). This is as much a practical need as a sexual one. Im a middle in terms of age play, meaning that in a lot of ways my brain is wired like a young teenager. Dont get me wrong, I am very intelligent, but there are a lot of aspects of life that the average adult has no trouble with, yet I cant get them right for the life of me.
I need someone with the time and patience to lay out the world for me, greatly restrict my choice, and ensure that Im living a life that is both productive and satisfying to me. I require very strict and explicit rules, structure, and discipline. I also hope for a level of affection and sexual use as well (to be discussed).
Ive ticked the relocatable box. This is not strictly the case, but I do have the ability to travel regularly and for lengths of time. If I find the right person, Im open to spending up to approximately a quarter of my life with them, broken up into regular 1-2 week visits. However I also need this person to be in regular contact with me via chatcallswebcam when we arent together in order to supervise me.
This is not roleplay. Im looking for a genuine relationship.
What I offer
An intelligent boy who is very well in touch with himself, thoughts, feelings, and needs.
An extremely kind boy who does everything he can to help those he loves.
Loyalty, honesty, and a serious attitude towards this relationship and its requirements.
The time, means, and energy to put into this relationship.
Service. As much as possible I hope to make my dominant happy. I love to be a houseboy, domestic service, etc. Also sexual and BDSM oriented.
The opportunity to shape and mentor a boy as described, and the emotional satisfaction that comes along with that.
What I need
Rules, structure, discipline. Id like to go down this rabbit hole as far as is reasonably possible. In the ideal fantasy everything I do would be heavily restricted and influenced by my dominant. In reality I need someone with the timepatience to pursue this goal as much as the world will allow, as well as enforce it on a daily basis.
I am a shirt and tie fetishist. This means that, specifically the collar and tie, have on some weird level come to represent genitalia in my brain. It is sexual to me, but also goes much, much deeper into who I am as a person. A dress code incorporating these elements is a cornerstone of what Im looking for. If this is not at all your fetish, Im skeptical that we will click, unless youre able to get off on how much I get off on it.
Someone with the time and energy to maintain a relationship as described. In all likelihood this will suit someone who is retired or has a job with a considerable amount of flexibility.
Someone who is able to host me approximately once per month, for 1-2 weeks at a time. You should probably be single, or have a partner who is very open to you engaging in this type of relationship, as I do. I dont want to be someones dirty little secret.
You should be intelligent and have a good understanding of yourself and what you want. I know it takes experience to discover these things, but Id rather not be someones guinea pig.
Someone who thinks the relationship Ive described would be extremely satisfying to them. Not someone who thinks they can replicate this relationship in order to get what they want from me.
Feel free to send me a message, I love to chat with anyone who is interested or curious about my profile. Note that I do not submit instantly. A discussion needs to be had about the ground rules of this relationship, and a decision needs to be made on both our parts as to whether we want to press the go button. Though once the button is pressed, I will never again be your equal.
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