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Hello
Thanks for taking the time to find out a little more about me. I am a very optimistic person. I have a great sense of humor.
I like to listen to music, travel and hangout with friends. However, I also love to go out on the town, dine out, go to movies,
have lots of fun as well as having quiet evenings at home. I'm not perfect, but I am a good person with a good heart. I am kind,
considerate, affectionate, romantic, faithful, and sensual. I am a strong believer in respect, honesty, trust, and communication.

I'm looking for an easy-going woman who is honest, intelligent, interesting, sense of humor, and a good conversationalist
and who is ready for a long-term commitment (i.e. Marriage).
I am a Christian guy with a positive, honest, faithful, and loving personality who is seeking a committed relationship
with a Christian lady.
I'm not a drama king or have a lot of baggage.
any on the woman I'd be interested in either. I don't smoke cigars, cigarettes, or the funny little cigarettes either
or chew tobacco and only occasionally drink (except for when I graduated from college and I felt compelled to enjoy the
drinks and shots given to me) and I would want the same in a partner.
I have a son, , who lives with me.
I enjoy movies, plays, concerts, walks, the beach, dinner out, pole dancing (not really,
just checking to see if you are paying attention or if I lost you somewhere between chewing tobacco and drinking shots),
sporting events, family activities, road trips, or just hanging out at home. I enjoy watching football and baseball,
Seahawks and Vikings, Mariners and Twins. .
I have a few extra pounds that I'm working on losing right now.
I would be supportive in any beneficial activities and endeavors that interest you.
I'm a work in progress trying to improve myself and I would like someone
who is also interested in improving themselves as well. I'm interested to try new things, go new places,
and meet new people and would like the same in a partner.
There needs to be chemistry to hit it off and some shared interests in order to bring out our personalities
so they will complement each other. Will your personality complement mine?
Send me an email if you feel we may be able to relate or if you see that we share a common interest.
I've been told that I'm a lot of fun because I can easily laugh at myself and be silly and goofy,
but you decide for yourself when we meet.

Things I've Learned In Life:
I have learned that when you're in love, it shows....And when you neglect love it dies...For love to nurture and grow it takes
two...Equal participation, respect and forgiveness...I have learned that sometimes life is not fair...
That sometimes love really hurts...And no matter how much you love someone doesn't mean you can make it work
....I have learned it is better to tell the truth...Even when you know it's gonna hurt....Cause the hurt heals
...And the lies scare....I have learned that communication is a very important part of life and not everyone knows how to do it
....I have learned that something that is very important to you may not be important to someone else...And sometimes you
have to just agree to disagree and let it go...I have learned that life is too short to wake up with regrets...And that you need
to live, love, laugh, and forgive like it is your last day...Cause those you care about can be taken from you without a
moment's notice..And in that moment there is nothing left but tears, memories, and regret
....I have learned that being kind is more important than being right....
I have learned that I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other
way and that sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand
....I have learned that everyone wants to live on top of the mountain,
but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it. ...
I have learned that you must trust God with all your heart and soul to give you the hope,
courage, and strength to get up when you fall down...Brush yourself off and move on....I have learned that life is tough,
but I'm tougher... I have learned to take on one day at a time...And not worry about tomorrow till it gets here...
I have learned how to let go and let God take the lead....Cause I know he has it all planned out...
I truly believe people come into your life for a reason and a purpose....Whether they stay a minute or a lifetime....
There is always something left in the heart and something learned...
I truly believe people change so that you can learn to let go...
That things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right...
And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together....
Also, I'd like to add that I'm not friends with any of my exes. For me I feel that my exes are an ex for a reason and therefore,
they are not in my present life. I feel it would make it much more difficult to go forward
into a future life with you if there is a contast reminder of someone from my past life always being
seen or talked about to you in our present life. I would be considerate and respectful of your feelings
and not have a need or desire to be friends with an ex, which I feel would be an inappropriate relationship
to have since I'm in a relationship with you and I would expect the same consideration and respect for my feelings
about your ex relationships as well.
Thank you.
Collen smith