I'm strong, aggressive and restrained. I'm not here to live out some fantasy or be in a lifestyle. I'm here because I'm a naturally dominant person and believe that each person has his or her own place. Be a woman submissive or dominant, her place is where she is most comfortable. As a dominant man, it's my responsibility to ensure the personal comfort of a submissive woman. That does not necessarily mean physical comfort. There may indeed be times when she needs physical discipline. There will be many others when she just needs a stern look or sharp verbal correction.

I am a dominant man and expect a submissive woman to be truly submissive. When I set rules, I expect them to be obeyed. When I give a command, I expect it to be followed.

Expectation however, is a two way street. A submissive woman can expect personal respect and consideration. Yes, there may be times that I'll degrade, humiliate or even cause some pain. That does not mean though that I feel the need to control every movement, thought or emotion.

I say that I'm restrained. Meaning that I establish and maintain my dominance in subtle ways unless otherwise needed. If for instance a submissive woman interrupts me with some erroneous question without having been dully recognized, I might either ignore her or give her a glance letting her know of her error. If such behavior persists, I will at an opportune time take physical corrective action. 

I'm a dominant man, not a lifestyle person, but someone who believes that everyone has their place.