my desires are few. they are not so much kinks as they are a way of life. i want someone to treat me like a lady in public, tell me i am beautiful, and make me feel usefull. i want someone to take the softer side of the BDSM with me since every Dom is into the Pain part, but not so much into the soft pleasure of serving and such. I find that i do enjoy the pain to a slight degree, but sometimes i just want a little bit of a "use me" scene. when that is not enough i like to be a mistress of sorts. being a sweet one to those who want a soft mistress and not so sweet to those who need the strap.