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Greetings all, My primary purpose in joining this site is to find the right woman who makes up the other half of me. She will revel in the kind of life that I can offer. She will love rural life with a man who will allow her to delve ever deeper into her submission. I am not much for whips and chains or "edging" or such things, but I do enjoy predicaments, both bondage and general situations. Sexuality is not the centerpiece of a life with me, but a bit of spice and excitement. I love obedience in a submissive above everything. I love cultivating obedience and (shall we say) discouraging the lack of it. I am not picky about a woman's age, education or weight, but I have little patience for people who seem to take pride in a negative. In other words, if you call yourself a "BBW", we might not get along. Being fat and out of shape is nothing to be proud of and it does NOT make anyone "beautiful". If you are overweight, that is fine, but don't act as though it were a good thing. The biggest killer for me is someone who takes pride in being stupid. I have no patience for stupid people. I also have no patience for people who are rude or who take pleasure in degrading people (unless mutually consented, LOL). I have a distinct preference for women who are feminine and who enjoy being women. I love the mystique of the feminine. I would probably make a great submissive were it not for the fact that I so love the obedience of a submissive. Well, that and I am a control freak. I love sailing, farming (I live on a small farm, raising heritage cattle and sheep), skiing and writing. I love many aspects of History, particularly mediIt has become a lost art). I am more impressed with the things you have learned since college (or high school) than what some teacher or professor imbued you with. It is not easy being submissive to me. In time you will learn that there are times when your opinion is wanted and times when it might garner stiff punishment I am not sadistic as per se, but I can draw very real tears when I so desire. I do not tolerate manipulation well. In fact, I am inclined to err on the side of too little rather than too much patience, and there is no appeal from my inclination... at least where manipulation is concerned. Finally, I am not one for endless cyber-chat. If I send you an email and you respond and it appears there is a mutual interest, I will send you information about me that will allow you to check me out fairly thoroughly. I am well known in my community (which is why there is no photo on a porn site) and you will be able to discern from multiple people (political figures, business people, people unlikely to be involved in a scam-for-sex) who I am and my reputation. From there, we will meet for dinner and conversation. From there, well, time will tell.