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Firstly, let me say, I am not into anything short term. The mental connection that two or more people bring into a dedicated relationship transforms sex into something much more than just fucking.

I am seeking a situation that is ALL of the following things:

* Long-term, perhaps progressing onto permanent
* Submissive female, max. dress size = 10, max. age = 40
* Wanting the reality of a D/s relationship, not just the fantasy of some kinky sex - this includes being controlled in a fair but firm, sometimes strict manner, including things like humiliation, dress code, prolonged periods of restraint, bondage, slapping, caning (punishment), hair pulling, name calling, pet training etc. with pre-agreed limits adhered to at all times
* Comfortable in the company of multiple others, perhaps you are bisexual too
* Not curious- serious
* More mental domination than physical - that said, I don not tolerate bad or bratty behaviour and have no problem administering discipline and punishment.......

I am very genuine, safe, clean and sane. Just an ordinary guy needing an extra-ordinary connection......

I am a very professional, clean, discrete, reliable, genuine person - not of American origin. English is my native language!

I am not into scat, kids, drugs, animals or blood. Everything else is open to exploration.

I know what it is I seek. I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and know what works best as a fit to me.

Either
1) submissive, pref. masochistic female (straight or bi) age is unimportant,  maximum dress size = 12 and able to meet initially (travel or accommodate) at least twice a month leading quickly to 24/7 if mutually desired
or
2) a couple that wishes to explore her submissive side to both men and women, perhaps a cuckold couple wanting someone like me to take the lead with her.

I am looking for long term ownership and meetings on a regular basis at first, leading to a more permanent situation if things are really good.

Approx. 99.999% of people on here do not fit the above profile, but that does not stop me looking. Genuine contact only, please. I am 44 years old, above average looking. What we do and how we do it will depend most on any dynamic that evolves between us.......

I am mostly into humiliation in many forms. If the following things hit something inside of you, and you feel it, then perhaps we fit:

Act as objects (furniture, ashtray, footstool, art, etc.)
Address Dom's as Sir, Ma'am, etc.
After sex, making sub lick off your cum and her juices from my penis
Age play
Anal plugs under clothing
Ask for drink, food, cigarettes, etc.
Bathroom use control
Blindfolds
Bondage that exposes body and/or places in odd positions

Caged in private and alone
Crawl on all 4s
Curse words (Whore, Slut, Worthless, etc.)
Dancing/stripped tease
Displayed in cage
Eat from a pet dish
Eat from floor
Eat without utensils
Enema
Eye contact restrictions
Feed submissive from hand
Forced nudity
Forced masturbation where Master chooses in public places
Forced shopping for BDSM toys
Forced slave auction
Forced to go to bathroom in front of others
Golden shower
Inspection of body cavities in private
Inspection of body cavities in public
Ignoring slave
Handcuffs in public
Handcuffed to a shopping cart while shopping
Harem--serving with others
Having food chosen for her
Having clothing chosen for her
Hood
Immobilization
Lead on leash
Leave bathroom door opened
Leave note with embarrassing instructions
Made to urinate in front of others
Make sub wear underwear that I've urinated on
Mask
Nipple clamps under see thru top
Orgasm control and/or denial
Pet roles (act like a dog, cat, etc.)
Presenting in private and public
Serve others (supervised or unsupervised)
Shave head
Shave pubic hair
Slap face
slave positions (kneel, stand, etc.)
Spanking (public)
Speech restriction
Stand in corner
Suck dildo in car, so others can see
Take pictures or videos
Tattoos (temporary)
Verbal abuse
Wear cat collar with bell on ankle in public
Wear Masters cum on your face without wiping
Wear no bra under see thru top
Wear no panties under see thru clothes
Wear collar everywhere
Wear clothes that are ripped or mismatched.
Wear a sign around neck or write on body (slut, slave, etc.)
Undress in front of others
I punish harshly for misdemeanours, but also reward good behaviour. I want to form you into the perfect girl........

One last thing: if you accept a chat, please do so with the assumption that after a reasonable time chatting (a week or so) you will be prepared either show me your face on cam or talk on the phone so I can verify that you are not just one more sad single guy living in his own fantasy world and lying about it to people like us. This is reality for me, and I don't like liars!

I have yahoo and msn chat. If you are interested in the above, let's see where we can go together.......