I have spent time, recently,  trying to decide if I am truly a submissive or simply a bottom.  If you don't know the difference, please move on to the next person. 

I am learning that there are people out there with whom I am naturally submissive, there are people I can submit to and there are those of whom I could not sumit to. 

People who make presumptions to know what is best for me, even if they are right, will cause me to simply run away.  I will admit they were right, but allow me to make my own mistakes & admit them.  It aids in my understanding of myself.