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| After almost 7 years on this site when it was collarme, i must say things have not changed much, yet i still try to find that right sub who understands this lifestyle. I am a Dom with over 20 years experience in this so i know how to spot a fake when i see one and i wont tolerate bullshit. I am seeking a subslave who understands this lifestyle and who has experience or willing to be trained or guided. She will take pleasure in pleasing her Daddy, she will seek his guidance she will long for his affection as well as he correcting nature, she will seek to please him, by keeping up her appearance and their home.
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Does anyone know if it still takes forever when you redo your profile? |
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where are the subs that can string a sentence together, and can actually commute her needs, wants and desires? I am tired of these one line response. Does anyone actually communicate anymore? |
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Been mulling something over and would like some women's opinions on this. Do you ladies ever just want a fuck, you know like a man who just wants a fuck. And if you just want a fuck (not a FWB) but just a fuck because you are horny. Do you ever act out on your need, or do you repress it out of fear of what others may think or say about you, do you repress it bcause you dont want that man who is the fuck, to get the wrong impression of you? Inquiring minds would like know, and for you spelling Nazis out there, GO TO HELL i am at work and its 4:45 am. |
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Why are so many people in this lifestyle hung up on race? I understand everyone has their taste but really to not look at some one because they are not the same color as you is just asinine and frankly ignorant. To put some one down because they may want some one who is of another race does not degrade them, but degrades you. Just my thoughts for the day. |
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I am really looking for my little real sub/slave, slut/woman, i know there is one real sub on here, damn you fake ass people get off the site so the adults can get to business!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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To all who reads this, stop with the pics of some one else, people want to see you not some fantasy of who you want to be, damn how in the hell is some one suppose to know if they are attracted to you, if all you have as photos is some one other person in a cage or some twisted cartoon. Include at least one picture of yourself even if the eyes are blocked out. Dam its not that hard. |
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This is just an FYI for all you laddies on here. I see allot of profiles and journal entries about too many emails, well here is a sugestion, how about you give information on what your looking for or not looking for it may cut down on the emails and maybe it would stop a guy from writing. How about saying something like this:
i do not date outside my race, or no black men or white men.
very much interested in a muscular man or no over weight man
or how about you must have a 6 figure slary or money does not mean that much to me.
Dam its that easy and i bet it would cut down on the unwanted emails, just saying. |
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Suprised, this morning i had one of the best conversations i have had with a sub in about a year, this sub was very respectful and very mature for her age,, she is 20. She showed more grace and class then a woman twice her age and showed more understanding about thelifestyle than 98% percent of the so called sub/slaves on this site. She did not do this because i was her Dom or even the fact that i was considering her, in fact that never came up. I highly suggest if i had her okay to give out her profile name, that some you of subs talk to her.
Oh and for the Doms on here you would do good to chat with her also.
FYI Doms : Just because a woman is a sub/slave it does not mean she is your sub/slave. |
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is there just one real person on this God fresaken site? Just one woman who understands what this lifestyle is about, just one who really is willing to put the time and effort into this, just one who is not on some Bullshit? Dam i know i am not the only one whose wondering this. |
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So women/subs/slaves/, what in the hell does it take to get a reply back from you , a simple no thank you would suffice. Yeah i know you get about 400 emails a day, but dam how long does it take to copy and past a no thank you.
Your looking but in reality you really do not want to be found, hey guess what the longest journey starts with a simple step.
Now my last point to all those so called subs advertising for a generous Dom, you are not a sub or a slave, you are and i will say it " A Whore" not a whore in the lifestyle vernacular but a whore as in hey i use to work time square and since they closed the sex scene down, collarme allows for me to advertise my services for free. And i know just like the true Doms on here know, that there will be some dumb ass trick of a Dumb fake Ass dom who will gladly pay for the displeasure of fucking you and beating you. This is not what this lifestyle is about and to you Tricks, i say leave the sight, so true Life-stylers can find their partner. |
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There has be a few things that i find very interesting to me while here on collarme and i find i must speak on it and if some one does not like it, TOO BAD
I see many profiles of subs/slaves advertising for a sister slave or sub for their Dom, well one i find this laughable , two i find it very sad. Laughable be cause we all know that the sister slave or sub is for some pathetic so called Dom who only wants to have two women at his beckon call and sad because there are so many dumb ass woman out here that would do it.
Something else find very sad is this, those so called Doms who feel they have the need to see everything their sub does online. It is neither a Dominant trait or a trait any secure male would have to do. If you need to monitor your sub/slave collarme account then it shows how insecure you really are and you are neither a Dom or a man.
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It would seem alot of subs have forgotten how to show respect as well as some Doms.
What is wrong with a no thank you letter, even if you get a million a day. It shows respect.
Just a thought, one should never burn bridges. |
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Lately a number of things have disturbed me on this site. Reading a number of sub profiles, who happen to be white and are looking for a black Dom. Some subs/slaves have stated that they have been verbaly attacked and insulted for what they are attracted to.
One sub wrote that, after a Dom read her profile and saw that she was seeking a black Dom.This white Dom began to call her all kinds of names like: white trash, whore, fat pig, ni**er lover and the like. Reading her profile, started me to wondering if these so called Doms and truly Doms at all. I mean what type of man who claims to be a Dom, can loose his cool because a sub who respectfuly tells him "sorry you are not what i am looking for" , makes me wonder if this so called male will loose it when he is sessioning with a sub, and does something that cause us all damage in the lifestyle.
Now this is not to say all Doms or all white doms have this problem in fact, a white sub contacted me and told me of a Black Dom who told her all she is good for is sucking black dick and getting fucked by black men. He could not be proud of being with a white slut. Man this asshole gives all black Doms a bad name.
So now i guess i must school, educate, orpreach if you will what is excepted behavior for Doms.
1. just because a sub is on this site does not make her yours, in fact if you come at her wrong she may never be.
2. if she states she is a slave, this does not mean she is yours.
3. Hard limits are hard limits and those should be respected and not forced against her will.
4. pain slave does not mean punching bag.
5. sex slave does not mean she will fuck you at the drop of a hat, or your friends. although she may.
6. for the subs, set some standards.
7. BDSM does not mean sex, nor does it mean abuse.
8. punishment must fit the offense.
9. If she has no interest in you do not take it personal, you are not her type.Hell i have been turned down more times then i turn down my collar. Get over it i do.
10. respect her, because she is respecting you, set some standards for your self.
To true Doms non of this should come as a suprise. This is for those young bulls who ahve not herd the story of the old bull and the young bull.
And to anyone who may get offended and write back to me cussing me out, save it i do not care. You wont hurt my feelings piss me off, i have herd it all before.
Ni**er,
Jungle bunny,
Coon,
Tootsie role,
Mud boy,
And you no what i will hear it again, so what you say abou t me has no affect nor do i care.
I am so tired of all those ignorant asshole making it hard on me and all the true Doms out here.
peace. |
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There are two choices every sub gets to make and only two. They are as follows. Her first choice is who she choses to submit to. And the second is when she no longer wishes to submit to that Dom/Domme.
The first choice should not be made lightly, she needs to feel comfortable with the Dom/Domme, she needs to trust them, she needs to respect them, and most off all she needs to communicate her desires. The second choice should go in conjunction with the first.
When she decides to take away her submissiveness, it should not be done lightly. The Dom/Domme, should have done terrible things such as but not limited too, inflicted serious pain/injurey, lost all respect for his sub basicaly making her a door mat, causing her-self too loose all selfrespect, or went way over her hard limits.
Some one asked me these questions so i thought instead of writing that person back and telling i would make it journal entry. Anyone have any comments about this let me know.
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Well after being on this site and reading a few profiles it seems to me that there are if not most, some really ignorant so called Doms on the site.
And if any Doms read this, and i hope they do.Understand that because you call yourself a Dom does not make you one.
How can you expect a woman to obey you when she has never met you. Or how is it that in your first email you give a command such as this "On your knees Bitch" come on. How would you know if she was on her kness (hmmm) I think some Doms need to go to Dom training school.
When i first got into the lifesyle i had Domme who mentored me and there was one saying she told me and said i should commit this to memory " A sub is like a rose, one your must prune and treat with respect. And she will open up and show you her beautiful side. You cannot force her she will open in her own time" This came from a Japanees Domme from Japan. And i have found this to serve me well.
Maybe some other Dom out there will read this and commit it to memory also and if he does i think the BDSM community will benefit from it.
And to the subs, a litle bit more concideration is in order. When some one writes you and if it is respectful courtesy dictates that you write back to say "no thank you", or "your not what iam looking for".
I know for me i don't care for disrespectful people, let alone disrespectful subs.
blkdom101 |
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