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During my many years here and in the real world I have, and have been, often identified as being a dominant - whilst I loathe labels I have been described as a natural dominant by people who matter to me (labels have their time and place). I have, on the whole, accepted this and been honoured to receive the submission of a number of people who remain special to me to this very day.

There have been instances when Ive questioned this label. Through my passion and experience with ropes their have been occasions when Ive been fortunate enough to have been given the opportunity to share my knowledge and have , for the sake of teaching, allowed myself to be restrained. I thought little of this at first but, in time, noticed a reaction that I could not have anticipated. I found a balance to my own dominance within me - a need to submit (although I discovered that this requires my own restraint).

I now find myself wanting to explore this new balance within me, the switch (that has been flicked) - another layer of Pandoras box, the lid of which will never close for me.

Whilst we do not live in an ideal world I hope to find someone who would want to explore with me. Someone with whom I can share my experience, someone who, like me, would want to continue to develop and grow.

I have been single for what feels like a very long time and would not want to rush headlong into anything but I am open minded and willing to see what happens.

Right now if you want to know more youll have to ask ...