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I seek one who?s desire to please is so great, she is willing to suffer for my pleasure, to be by my side as my affectionate slave, to use as I please, to be protected and possessed, cherished and adored. I do not care whether you label yourself as a slave or sub; everyone has their own ideas as to the precise definition of each label. What I care about is if you are willing to relinquish control, submit to my desires, suffer for my pleasure and serve me in a committed, long term and hopefully permanent relationship. I am looking for someone who needs structure and wants to be well cared for. One who will be receptive to and enjoy romance and affection. I am a very tactile person and enjoy touching and being touched. Someone physically and emotionally clingy as I would love to feel needed. Outside of the house we will appear vanilla but there will be little things that I do to remind you of your position while in public, like holding your wrist instead of your hand, a gaze, a hand cue or something else discreet. Submission must be complete and total. Submission of your mind is more important than your body. You should be able to be emotionally engaged in the relationship, not disassociated from your body. Without your mind your body is nothing but a warm doll. You must want to learn about me and more importantly about yourself so that we may grow in our relationship. Learn to accept the duality of your nature; being owned as property and yet being very well cared for by her Master. You will also understand and accept my duality well; my need for love and affection contrasted with my sadistic needs of making you suffer physically. I am strict but not unreasonable, correcting on the spot for minor indiscretion (grabbing her hair for a verbal warning, or an OTK spanking). At times you will simply be used to satisfy my sexual needs. Most of the time you will make every attempt to satisfy my need for affection. I would just as soon have you curl up on my lap to watch a movie as I would use you. There will be times when I will need to make you suffer pain and humiliation for my own satisfaction. I would like someone who would like to be tossed about, physically and mentally dominated. You will be required to be obedient and submissive in public though I will not subject you to abject public humiliation. I desire a woman who loves to please. You should be selfless and in touch with your emotions and able to express them without hesitation. You will tell me all your needs, desires and fantasies, no matter how dark, twisted or embarrassed they make you feel; and I will take time to address them one by one so I may more effectively care and provide for you. I am emotionally stable albeit somewhat sensitive. I seem to have my feelings hurt more easily than others. I am financially stable and have a good career. I don?t go out for the sake of going out. I am very self sufficient. I enjoy working to reap the rewards with my soul mate. I am very methodical and thoughtful. Thus I rarely do anything without thinking it over. You will be drug and disease free and you will be expected to perform some domestic duties once collared. You will have all of your life?s needs provided for. I generally do not wish to enter into a relationship where there is a child nor do I wish to have children. I may accept a woman with a child but there are many caveats. If you have children and they no longer live with you then this should not be a problem. You should be willing to relocate however, I do not expect you, nor will I ask you to relocate after a few emails or phone calls. Nor will I expect you to bear the burden of any travel or moving expenses yourself. Eventually you must relocate to be with me before I claim you as my own. I do not put someone "under consideration" lightly (I actually dislike that term). We have to meet first; then develop a relationship. After some time when, I feel it is appropriate, I will place you "under consideration". I believe being under consideration to be analogous to an engagement. Once under consideration it will be my decision as to whether to bestow upon you my collar. Once collared you will not have limits of your own. My primary interest is of course having a master/slave relationship. However my more specific interest are complete control and ownership of my moulded woman of my dreams. I also enjoy heavy chain bondage and find some form of continual light bondage extremely arousing. By this I mean you wearing a collar, leather cuffs and the like, or being bound with chains or ropes at night to restrict some of your movements or just to make you slightly uncomfortable. Tears are sexy and very arousing for me and I love the sexy marks of a cane on a woman?s shapely body. My limits: You will be drug and disease free, not partake in any illegal activities, not be forced or allowed to engage in corophilia or bestiality, sharing or prostitution. Congratulations you have read the entire profile. One last thing: If you have found what I have written appealing I ask that you contact me. Please do not feel intimidated as I do not subscribe to the belief that subs should not be the ones to contact potential Doms. If you have read my profile and find it appealing then it is your duty not to me but to yourself to send me a note.