I choose the label switch on this site, but I'm more of a kinky hedonist.  Right now I'm looking for a submissive or switch woman to explore new things with.   I'm not extremely sadistic or masochistic, but I do enjoy giving and receiving pain if a partner is getting off on it too.  I enjoy most kinds of play, and really love to incorporate toys and bdsm gear into my scenes.  I'm handy enough to repair stuff if it breaks, and I have an interest in kinky leathercrafting and furniture making.   I don't consider anything at all taboo for discussion purposes, though I won't always have an opinion on matters.  I'm hoping to engage in a relationship for our mutual betterment, and mutual pleasure.

To give you an idea of what I'm looking for in a bottom/switch, I'm more attracted to the good girl types than the bad girls.  I expect you to be capable of living independently as an adult, or at least be willing to learn the necessary skills.  I'm not a big fan of excessive punishments, and expect you to be self-motivated towards doing and being good.  I prefer a role as a teacher rather than trainer.   If you have a pure heart and a perverted mind, I'd love to meet you.  I'm not really looking for a slave or housekeeper or whatever, but I appreciate personal services like body care, grooming, massage, and other things.  Should you be the type who enjoys serving domestically, and are good at it, I'd be willing to take advantage of that fact.

I'm also a capable bottom, and find the experience to be valuable.  Whenever possible I'll try something out on myself before I would do it to another person.  I'm the type of person who will try almost anything once.  I enjoy bottoming and submitting, but being a slave or 24/7 submissive is just not in my blood.

If you like to switch, I'd REALLY like to meet you.  A submissive with a curiosity about topping, or a willingness to service top, would receive special consideration, but I understand that's not how most people are wired.

I live in San Antonio, and if you wish to contact me, it'd be best if you were in the San Antonio area as well.  I don't have a problem with going to play parties and events but I do prefer more intimate settings.  I prefer to meet in person rather than to have a prolonged e-relationship.

I can host.

I practice safe sex.

Ask me anything!