FINALLY GOT MY PASSWORD. LOL
Hello to All, I am a mature educated woman, single and unattached physically, legaly, emotionally and financially. I have acquired the normal amount of baggage that mature woman would naturally have. (It’s not the amount of baggage its how you carry it ... read that somewhere) I am not submissive to the entire world, I am submissive to a man that I am in a relationship with, as long as he is an honourable man.
I love to have the emotional and mental side of M/s. A slave is what ever the two involved in the relationship say it is, there is no * universal.. One definition fits all * slave or sub, I will never be slave to all. I take the time to exercise everyday, and to eat as healthy as possible (about 90% of the time) I expect a Master or Dom to do the same, to respect his body, to exhibit control over himself.
I am not a piece of meat, a pig, a pet, or a dog, I am a woman, I give respect, and I expect it to be given back. I am not an object or an IT. I am a woman, a woman that will do what she can to please the man/Dom/Master in her life, and a woman that knows what it takes to make a relationship work, and yes even a BDSM relationship requires work from both parties, (well unless you’re seeking a very short term thing, shrugs, then no work is necessary)
To me, I would not do the * session or play date* thing because I find that the * pain* is the most intimate of things to share with someone, and I would not share this with just anyone. He must be someone I am in a real and meaningful relationship with. Along the same line, I do not have to * share * a man, I would rather be without a man than to be in that sort of situation. I would want a man that thought I was more than enough for him, if he felt he needed to have more then I am truly not the one to please him.
To all those that do not feel I am their view of a slave, or they think I am too opinionated, or wrong, please do us both a favor and keep the opinion to yourself, just hide me so that you never have to see my profile again, ;) NOTE: there are millions of definitions of what a Master/Dom is too, usually two do not completely agree on this either. I truly don’t need or want to hear your negative opinion, I have said who I am and what I am, if I am not near what you want, then go on to the next profile, I am sure you will find what you seek.
Thank you all.
Reposted from a Dom Profile; thought it was very unique:
from the preface to "THE IMAGE" a little insight from Pauline Re'age "a man in love-if he has any perception at all, soon realizes his error: he is the master, so it seems, but only if his lady friend permits it the need to interchange the roles as slave and master for the sake of the relationship is never more clearly demonstrated than in the course of an affair. Never is the complicity between victim and executioner more essential. Even chained down on her knees, begging for mercy, it is the woman finally, who is in command. She knows thi only too well. Her power increases directly in proportion to her apparent self-abasement. But with a single look, she can call a halt to everything, make it all crumble into dust. Once this is clearly understood by both parties at the cost of mutual reappraisal, the game can go on. But its meaning will have changed The all powerful slave, dragging herself at her master's heel's is really the god. The man is only her priest, living in fear and trembling of her displeasure. his sole function is to freeform the various ceremonies that around the sacred object. If he falls from grace, everything is lost.