4/19/2010 7:19:59 PM: Its so funny to me how people Dont get the point when you say stop contacting me, and when ya block one profile they just keep making new ones to message you with. Despret ya think? Why cant people just understand that i dont enjoy associating with men and women who act like 5 year olds. Its not rocket science people. Ive been in this lifestyle for about 3 1/2 years and as sad as it is to say this. its been more of a hassle then anything else. Girls and guys aliike. i have one question for you all, why do the girls on here have so little self respect? why do they feel that they arent worthy of expressing their thoughts and keeping there emotional and physical wellbeing a top priority? I just dont get it. Most men are only going to have the amount of respect for you that you have for yourself, If you have no self confidence and no self respect and engage is this lifestyle because you feel worthless, then i really hope you delete your account and seek couseling. because this website is the wrong place for you. And guys, why do you mistake being a dominant for being an arrogant asshole? Its not working with me, and any girl who has a brain would tell you the same thing. Its a huge turn OFF. like the biggest red flag you've ever seen. Its not difficult to get your point across or express yourself without being on and ego trip.. what is up with people? This website has turn into a a trash can for the most part.. Now i havent been around but 18 years but as young as i am i can promise you that when BDSM originated this was not what it looked like...