(chat does not work for me here, please do not send requests)

no married, cheating men

I don't do online doms

I don't like to email or chat with people who don't have pictures...

I usually am turned off by facial hair
I don't like cockshots.

I want local only.

I'm looking for something potentially long-term & serious - not just play.

I'm so attracted to strong, confident guys who can degrade and humiliate me. Pulling my hair, spanking, blindfolds, crops, canes... are perfect for me. I love to have marks; having my face slapped is so hot to me.

I am not looking to meet a couple -  I'm not a good 3rd

As far as likes/dislikes,... I love kissing - one kiss can make me sooo turned on and I couldn't get turned on at all by a bad kisser. 

I like humiliation, degradation, corporal punishment - especially when it's from someone very experienced & very strict. I like mental control more than bondage & restraints. I can cum from giving my partner oral sex. 

I like service, cleaning & 50's style household - having someone in my head who is the focus of my attention...who I want to help & assist all the time.

I like men close to my own age & I wouldn't relocate. Local is ideal.
I am very attracted to tall men, over 5'10.
I'm sub sexually - but not in every other aspect of my life.

I'd love a guy who is fun, polite, professional & sexy...someone that people would be so surprised that he's so strong & controlling when we're alone...I like being friends with my partner - a complete relationship is my ideal, and makes me more focused on him :)

Really & truly - I am only interested in meeting local men. I have an erratic work schedule and wouldn't consider driving an hour or so at 11pm. Proximity = more spontaneous & more frequent times to be together. I cannot often host, so I have to do the traveling. Hotels are too impersonal and mistress-y for me, usually. 

I'm not looking for random use or just a rough encounter.

Distance & age are potential dealbreakers for me, even if you're sexy, experienced and almost perfect :)
 
I've been so polite to every guy who tells me that distance shouldn't matter - but it does.