Quite simple really - Enjoy power and the unique sensations the application of it provides for both of us. While I have been at this for years and years, please do not mistakenly leap to the idea that I am a dungeon owning leather-masked, sociopath or a door mat. Rather, I am a professional with multiple advanced degrees, a charming if occasionally over-intense demeanor, who thrives on creating, advancing, and reveling in the heady intoxicant of sexual power exchange. Much more interested in D/S and some B/D than SM. Love to help us both get and enjoy that which we can get nowhere else. Want to make things better by making this challenging...set free by binding...raise up by lowering... If you follow that last, if it reaches you, if you see the reality that by balancing a plus and a minus you do not get neutral you actually get more of a charge...then reach out...contact me...impress the hell out of me with your intellect, your thoughtfulness, your interest and your ability to enjoy this, rather than making it a drama competition. I am here to enjoy. Hope you are as well. Not here to make things harder for anyone... including my wife...life is too short for that behavior. I travel the country professionally. Always looking to meet new people, make new friends, have a drink with someone interesting to talk to...and if there is something more...all the better. Shall we ...?