Collarspace

If you wrote to me and I did not answer that is because I set up mail filters to narrow those who write to me. They automatically go to bulk that way and I never see them at all! So stop wasting your time.

Top Ten FAQ

1. I am doing fine. Please stop asking. If you have something in mind get to the point please and ask.

2. It is just a name. It has more to do with me liking being forced, struggling and role play that sort of thing. My Dad has never abused me and I would not want him to.

3. If you are more than ten years older than me. I am not interested. Age IS more than a number. Because I am looking for a long term partner if you are more then ten years older than I am then you cannot be a long enough term partner for me as you will be dead far sooner than either of us would like.

It is not a hangup I have about age. It is a stark reality. I am sorry if you think life has passed you by. Stop living in a fantasy world where you are attractive to someone 20 or 30 years younger than yourself, and live you life while you have some years left instead of endlessly messaging women who are young enough to be your Daughters or worst yet your Grand Daughters! It is far past the time for you to grow up and smell the coffee.

4. It does not matter how totally wonderful you are. There are only so many friends mentors chat partners buddies pals I can make time for. Thank you for the offer.

5. If you are not within a few hours drive I am not interested. I dont care if you travel frequently to where I live. That means you are not close enough. If you tell me you are moving here soon that too is great. Look me up when you get here and are settled. I am looking for real.

6. If you are a woman, or a couple or a male sub switch or are a male who is Bi or you do not currently have the genitals you were born with, then I am not interested. If you smoke or have substance abuse issues I am not interested.

7. If you are not completely single and unattached I am not interested.

8. If I want to see your dick I will ask to. Same thing goes for porn or links to porn. I know how to do a search. If I want to see that I would find it for myself.

9. No I dont want to hop on KIK, or Skype or anything like that.

10. If I want to show you a picture or tell you my name or the city in which I live I will. But I have no obligation to do any of those things.

Now that that is out of the way..

I am not sure what to say here about myself. I have had thoughts of submission for as long as I can remember having thoughts about sex. I hope to meet someone who can help me decide if this is a path I should continue upon.

If you want to see a picture of me send one of yourself when you ask. That does not mean that I will automatically send you one.

Also I am never going to send any picture I do not also want my Mom to be able to see. I accept the fact that you are shy or have other good reasons to not post a pic on your profile. I expect the same consideration you give yourself.