I have spent much of my time on the other end of the leash, and so rise cautiously from my knees to seek new kinds of adventures.

I understand the submissive mindset and am keen now to use that experience to my advantage.

Seeking a lady who is not a doormat but is willing to be controlled. Dress (or undress) to order, and should be willing to experience pain to at least some degree. Like protocol, submitting to sex is optional.

If masochism is your thing then the pain can be inflicted with brutality but this is by no means necessary from my viewpoint.

Am willing to talk online, but not forever, and of course will fully understand if your own common sense dictates a public vanilla meeting prior to any play taking place.

Your humanity will be respected, but am open to more extreme scenarios of degradation if that is what flips your switches.

Happy to send photos and exchange phone numbers with anyone genuine and also happy to enjoy a relationship outside of the dungeon bedroom if we get on.