I am looking for D/s relationship. Long term. Real time.

Having said all that follows, do not for a moment think i will limit your lifestlye. I know and understand myself very well, and i respect your right to live life the way you choose with or without me :). The person with whom i choose to share my life will learn my depths and my heights, my strengths and my weaknesses, my passions and my dislikes, my all. Just as i will learn his.

I have experienced many aspects, techniques and situations, have had long term relationships. Every experience is different, even if it is given the same name. The holder of the whip, the thickness of the cane, the connection between us make every encounter different, no matter how many years or times the scene has been repeated. I am not just looking for play.

Living the life that is congruent with one's mind, one's Dom/Master's mind and society's needs is delicate balance that i believe is worth striving for. It is predicated on trust, and strengthened by respect. By it's very nature it must take time, and be exposed to harsh realities, and withstand the vicissitudes of life, the unpredictable, the difficult, the unforeseen. And through it all will be joys and care and comfort and ... whatever else we make it.

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