Not so new to BDSM anymore but still have much to learn and explore about myself and others. With this in mind my profile will continue to be a work in progress for quite some time I would hope.

I am an educated submissive who wants to be loved and abused, used and controlled in equal measures. l am searching for an experienced SINGLE Dominant male who will train/instruct me in the art (both physically and psychologically) as I have a thirst for knowledge and experience, believing and knowing that you can never exhaust your learning capabilities.

Experience so far has revealed that I am suited to being tightly rope/leather bound with sensory deprivation accompanied by spanking, flogging or whipping.

I have found that being caged appeals to me immensely alongside associated activities and have a real curiosity about being boxed.  I have a keen desire and willingness to explore bondage (in particular dilemma bondage), CP and confinement further, to discover and push my limits.

I came across  a new word recently (thanks to a particular Dom's profile ),  -"merinthophilia." I think then, that I must be a merinthophiliac... 

I no longer ponder the fact that I have never had a caning. Have now experienced the rising welts and surging pain that arises and subsides intermittently...and I would like more.

I muse about the fact that I am a little bit scared of ass play even though I know I ultimately want the insertion of my ass hook...

Breath play is something that I have encountered and have very much enjoyed in context...but approach with much caution and only with a wholly trusted partner...

I enjoy tasks and challenges as they keep my interest and focus. I relish psychological and physical struggle in order to better myself to be the best I can be...this of course is and will be a progressive process.

Some of the pictures on here are me and some are not. Those that are not, represent my persuasions.