I moved to Colorado a couple of months ago to start a business and things have settled down enough that I could commit to a relationship. I'm intelligent, well educated, quietly dominant and a bunch of other attributes that you can't possibly validate without meeting me. I can't post a picture for professional reasons but you never know, maybe you won't vomit when you see me.

I'm looking for an intelligent and feminine submissive who generally has her life together. If you're on this site then you're probably kinky in the bedroom, so let's talk about how things work outside of that. I don't want 24/7 micromanaged control of your life. I do want to be a mentor and trusted advisor. I won't ignore your needs and preferences. I will listen carefully and then make most of the decisions about what we do together. I prefer to be in a relationship with someone capable and competent. I'm quite handy in a crisis but I'd rather be with a girl who's life is more than a series of crises.

I want a relationship with a gentle ebb and flow of power exchange outside the bedroom and a very intense power exchange in the bedroom.

Shall I brag about my prowess in the sensual arts of the dungeon and bedroom? Maybe not. But let me just say that I am fairly creative and love to design one-of-a-kind scenes.

There are a couple of aspects of my life and personalities that may well be deal breakers for you and I think it is as well to get them cleared away here. First, I'm an atheist. I have no problem with being with someone devout but I recognize that that person might have a problem being with a godless heathen like me. Secondly, I neither have nor want children. If you're looking for a father to your existing or hoped for children then I'm not the guy. I don't share well and need a monogamous relationship. Finally, I don't switch.

If you're still reading, you should message me.