Hello there. Thank you for taking the time to read over my profile here. Lets start with why I am on Collarme.com in the first place. I am a single Dominate straight male...yes sorry Dommes and men need not attempt to convert me to the glory of your ways. Not interested. I am here for 2 reasons, number one to help mentor and guide and answer questions for the new and even some long time sub's slaves, switches and Doms. I may be young but I have many years experience and though it seems like bragging it is not. I have seen much in this lifestyle and as a soul who enjoys helping and sharing I am always willing to offer advice, guidance, and a listening ear. Think of me as a free therapist of the D's variety as well as a Professor of the lifestyle. If only they taught BDSM studies more in depth in college I wouldn't be as needed....ok that was a poor attempt at humor.....So in short reason one of why I am here is to help those who need it, and be a helpful guide on here who is not trying to get in your pants or treat you like a piece of meat. I know many of the so called mentors on here use it as a guise to get you comfortable so they can shall we say (teach you lessons) you never wished to know. I will leave it at that. My second reason is the same most of you are here, to find a good match. I am as I said currently very single. And I as a Dom am very interested in finding a great sub. I have collard slaves and trained subs before. Though I am fully capable of being a Master, I am leaning currently toward a sub vs a full on 24/7 slave due to my travel and work. It would not be in my or their best interest to be the classic 24/7 slave currently. But I am very open to all the dynamics. I am a stern yet fair Daddy Mentor type Dominate. I am not a Sadist by nature by nature, so I do not overly punish nor torment subs for my own gleeful pleasure. I believe strongly correction, discipline, training, and guidance all need to be done with a firm yet caring hand. Masochists who love the whip can never be punished by a whipping so why even try giving them their candy and thinking it will make them act right? makes no sense at all. I also hold firmly to the fact that submission is 99% mental. The body is merely a tool. So binding and abusing a slave does mean you have made her submit...it simply means you have raped a woman and in many cases gotten away with it under the guise of (lifestyle). That makes me not only uneasy but upset that many of these so called doms do not know the first thing about training a dog let alone a human being. Ok I will cut my rant short there...this is after all about me and those fake doms. I prefer to focus on the mental guidance, training, and advancement. It is after all why we are here in this lifestyle be it our first time looking into it, or the 40th year of your servitude. All subs and slaves desire a balance to their very being. A yearning and or craving to be fed and filled that nothing short of being Dominated/directed/mentored/or other variations of servitude can fulfill. It is that very yearning and desire that makes a TRUE Dom excited and thankful to be able to help and enjoy that dynamic. So if your new to the lifestyle and reading this...first off congrats on still reading you been reading a while so obviously your wanting to learn and your not a person who is easily bored, and that is great. So the basic thing you need to know is that the submissive urges and desires within you are completely normal and many people have them. The same as what food you like and music you prefer. It makes you who you are. Do not deny yourself or you will find that inner hunger grows more and more powerful and may well lead you to start using less and less good judgment. I have seen a lot of submissive minded women make mistakes such as date abusive men, or go out to bars and put themselves in danger to fulfill risky fantasies, it is never a good idea to do any such things. That is why you need a good Dom or at the very least a Mentor/Guide to help you. Many submissive's when first starting out or even after they been in the lifestyle a while choose to learn the ropes online because it is 100% safe, and if you have a good teacher you can learn much of the things you wish to know safely and easily vs putting your life in the hands of a stranger as many try to do. Though a small percentage of new sub's find the online version unappealing do to the fact they do not get to feel the physical touch of a Dom it is important to remember that it is not about feeling the touch or the whip. It is all about the mind when your beginning your journey. It is important to remember a few things when you are choosing a online trainer and or mentor. Number 1, make sure that they have a webcam. Any real Mentor worth a damn will have a webcam to show you who he is. It is after all online....you can not be too careful....Second, they should be able to answer this very simple question without sounding like a drooling perv. What is most important thing you seek in a sub...If they jump to sex based acts, or a generic answer like total obedience skip them. Real Doms and mentors can give real answers....mine for example is, I seek a woman who desires to know herself better, who has a pleasing nature but also knows that she has a sassy side, she loves both sides and wants to learn how to fully control both to be the true woman she was born to be. She should be passionate, smart, (smart can mean many things not just a masters degree) submissive of course, and above all else she should desire to never stop learning and growing not only as a sub/slave but also as a human. And she should understand that a sub and or slave is just as valuable as a human life form as the Dom. And she should not be using the lifestyle to punish herself, or because she feels worthless. See how much more that informs you than...she should love being naked and serving me. So keep that in mind when selecting an online or even in person Dom Master or mentor/guide. I do currently offer guidance, mentoring, and advice to any sub slave or switch who requests it. I also do make time in my schedule to do online mentoring and training sessions for self discovery, basic submission 101 and more. So if you have an interest in these or other things let me know. And please be clear in the first email if your seeking a mentoring session and or advice and guidance..or your interested in me as a possible in person Dom. So as to limit the confusion. As I do openly and freely offer mentoring guidance and sessions, but as a Dom I am very very selective of whom I choose for that role as I am sure you understand. Well if you made it this far and are still reading I should say congrats. And here is a little reward. If you email me and tell me that my favorite car when I was a kid was a Pontiac Firebird I will schedule your online session and mentoring if you desire it much sooner. Since I know you paid attention and are focused enough to have read the whole profile. I hope if nothing else you learned a few things and were educated. Whether or not I am the type of Dom or even guide you are seeking, I hope you find what you are looking for and that you never stop learning and growing. Be Blessed.