Collarspace

This is not a casual thing for us. Its not experimentation. Its something weve discussed during the entire course of our relationship (5 years). It is definitely not just something I want, but something WE want.

We are open to play partners, dating, FWB, etc., but our ideal is a loving BDSM relationship. If you are local, it does not have to be a live-in relationship (though were open to that, of course). If youre not local, that may be the only practical way to make it work in the long run.

Perhaps you are new to BDSM or have dabbled and want a safe relationship in which to grow and thrive. Perhaps youre tired of playing the field and posting to CS (we sure are). There are some drawbacks to this relationship , but also many advantages.

Im not going to try to sell our strengths here. Really, the only way to know if something might be something is to start talking.

Generally, we would like someone 20-35, but personality matters more than age. We like sassy, but not bratty (sassy teasing, sarcasm, etc., bratty deliberate disobedience). We are not Daddy and Mommy types, though we have some Daddy and Mommy characteristics. We are not sadists, but can go pretty far down that road with the right person.

That should be enough to intrigue the right person. Feel free to reach out, but please have something of substance to say. We will respond to any semi-serious messages. If you have any must haves or must nots and want to ask about those first, please do.

We will share photos when the time is right! We just dont want to post them publicly.