Hello, I am a vanilla looking clean cut muscular man looking for a vanilla in public yet submissive women in private. Looking for young at heart but not a baby. Would ideally like a relationship. I am kind and loving but can be very demanding and strict. I simply cant do vanilla, there is so much more out there, I want that intense connection in a relationship that only Ds can bring. I will switch with the right person. There is more to life than the blah blah everyday boring vanilla life.