My relationship with a dominant man recently ended after nearly 4 years (let's blame it on the pandemic).  I would enjoy having a dominant in my life again, whether male or female.  I'm educated, professional, and due to variety of circumstances I am not full-time, though my inner core is female.  I usually appeal to leg, butt, and feet men. I am attracted to dominant, confident, commanding personalities of either sex. Someone intelligent is a big plus.

I seek an online relationship, with possibility of more.  I am sweet and kind and effeminate, and submissive sexually.  This is not a role-play for me, it's how I am wired.  I'm 5'8", have a rather BBW body, and I am a pleaser.  How someone treats me is much more important than what they look like (within reason!).  And, I really like to be treated as a woman.

(If, when contacting me, all you can manage is a short "hey there", or think it unnecessary or a waste of effort to initiate a meaningful conversation, I want to thank you.  That's because I have zero interest in such people and it will be easy to ignore your approach. C'mon, fellas, first impressions count!)

If this short introduction, and you appreciate an feminine transvestite and are open to the possibility of something ongoing and meaningful, I would welcome a message from you.  My name is Ellen.