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SirMalevolent
Hetero Male, 42, Nevada 
SirMalevolent

!!! I will NOT send money for any reason. Scammers do not waste your time!!!

*** I decline for my profile content or pictures associated with it to be used in research. Researchers should stop reading here.***

*Due to My profession I cannot post a face-pic, but will video-chat prior to meeting.
*I have been off here for several years, hence the new profile.
*Punctuation appears to be limited in this word-processor. So missing apostrophes, semicolons, etc are not due to sloppiness on My part.

MASTER SEEKING
1) 24-7 TPE LTR, cis-female, no-limits slave(s).
(possibility for post-op or soon to be trans-females)


- Death is NOT a limit, it is simply common sense.
- Slighty over-weight fine, obese not.
- Muscular fine, but not like Arnold Schwarzenegger in drag.
- age 18-35 (some flex on upper limit).
- female-female couples meeting rest or criteria okay.
- Tertiary education (after high school) is a plus, as long as it has led to gainful employment. I would rather have a slave that is a welder than one who has a BA and is working as a barista, not that it is a deal breaker. You dont need to be a genius but you have a brain for reasons other than for Me to toy with.
(NOTE You will need employment, at least for the foreseeable future)

2) Extreme-sub LTR same as above with few limits on use (eg limits on pain). Again common sense things arent limits children, armed robbery... note the below is written for slaves not subs.

3) I will take in 1 alpha
(orientation bottom to Males and asserts some or total dominance over females).

4) I will play with subs.
(Read entire profile before messaging).

Experience is not as important as your level of commitment and desire. My collaring you will be a lengthy process, so you will have ample time to change your mind (see process at end of profile). It is not the chains that will keep My property from running, but their own desire for those chains. If they should ever decide to leave they will have both the ability and My blessing.

RELATIONSHIP PHILOSOPHY
It seems ridiculous to explain an Ms relationship to a slave, to sub an explanation is absolutely necessary. First, slaves have no-limits, the second if you place a limit on a Top you are a sub. Why? In an Ms relationship a slave has the desire to belong body, soul, and often mind to their Master, the wish to be property. Not as in a pet , where animal cruelty laws would apply, but closer to furniture. Metiphorically speaking, carve Your initials into a dog and you go to jail, but carve them into Your table and no one cares.

This leads to a level of intimacy unattainable in other relationships. The slave knows the darkest depths of their Masters soul, which is hidden from the rest of society, no one else gets to experience that side of Master. The slave not only accepts it but nurtures it as an equal part of Master. Therefore, the slave worships the entirety of their Master. For My part, I accept the subservient nature of the slave and treasure its existence, because without its being, My darkness would be stifled. I have been asked if there can be love in a Ms relationship towards a slave from the Master. While not truely-romantic or familial in nature, love can exists. Who could not love something that accepts and cherishes the entirety of His being? Each slave is different, so you may be treated like a prized possession or the worthless trash you are.

It is important to Me to take the slave as deep into My depravity as they can go. I am highly empathetic which helps gauge a slaves capabilities and progress at a pace that doesnt make the slave catatonic. The point of breaking a slave is, just like a horse, to rebuild them to serve Me as I desire, it is not to break their will to live. If a Master breaks a slaves will to live they have crossed the line between BDSM and ABUSE.

Communication is essential to an Ms relationship. The Master must make every effort to clearly communicate His needs, desires, the rules, and commands. Whilst the slave must leave nothing hidden, because to hide things is to cripple a Masters ability to chart the relationships course.

BDSM PHILOSOPHY
Whilst I agree with the Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) ethos. Safe and sane are far too subjective to define when it comes to BDSM. According to most normies we are all insane. I embrace Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) instead. Abuse and BDSM are not the same thing, although at times they can look the same. Intent and desire is the primary difference. While, a slave desires the heavy hand of Master even if they don't desire the specific methods implemented.

Abuse involves unwanted and unconsented treatment towards the victim, which causes them duress. However, the bottom desires and consents to the treatment from the Top. Even if they experience extreme fear, pain, or temporary duress the slave derives a sense of purpose/pleasure from it. Skydivers feel fear jumping out of an airplane, but that fear is perceived by the skydiver as pleasure. Perception is the difference.

It is wrong, however, to simple equated BDSM to purely being thrill-seeking and label Tops bottoms as adrenaline-junkies, even if it is true for some.

My hard-limits are geared towards avoiding criminal charges. I have spent too much time and money to get where I am, to live behind bars. Beyond that, I have sadistic streak that knows no bounds.

PERSONAL
I am a dichotomy. As much at home in the light as the dark. But, not completely satisfied with either alone. Oh, how I long to have lived as a Count de Sade in the feudal era... being the truest of gentlemen to My Peers and treating My serfs as the worthless-inhuman-garbage they were.

With few exceptions, I follow the platinum-rule... treat others as they wish to be treated. Ergo... vanilla to vanilla, respect the limits of a sub, and let the Beast have His way with the slave. Address your messages to Master M to prove you have read this.

My professional and current personal-life satisfies My lighter-side. Hence My seeking creatures to unleash the darkness. This is not to say you will experience unending darkness. The existence of a slave is to serve in whatever capacity their Master desires. You may be completely neglected toiling in the background, for extended periods of time. I may wish to show you kindness because of a whim. But, know you will never be considered my equal.

I do have a beer-belly thanks to post-graduate school, but now that it is done with, I will lose it. My profession would fall into the broad arena of psych. So for those into psychological BDSM (eg Relyfe, dehuminization, etc.) I am likely your ideal Master... that is if you can accept the extreme physical demands I will eventually make of you.


COLLARING
The consideration period (dating phase in vanilla world) has no definitive length, it will extend for a sufficient period after youve relocated for us to determine fit. You have to offer yourself up for collaring before the consideration period can end. Then once I decide to collar you it would be the equivalent of an engagement. Once you recieve my mark then your enslavement is completely. A sub can be collared, but only a slave, defined above, will be marked.

8/23/2023 10:03:23 AM: Update: I am no longer living in Nevada. I am currently living in the central US. Will give more details should we connect.

3/4/2023 9:08:50 PM: Common Questions Yes... if you do not meet My criteria to join Me, friends are fine too, Tops, Switches, or bottoms. Sorry,  unless you are bringing along a female bottom or switch for Me to play with.... I am not currently interested in being a Top to cis gender males. For those that do not know what... cis gender... means, it means you identify as a man. Trans gender females need to be close to having or had reassignment surgery to join Me

2/9/2023 2:11:31 PM: Sadism VS. Abuse VS. Discipline The difference between sadism and physical abuse are two fold. ...Sadism is violence for the pleasure of the sadist and with either the explicit or implicit consent of the recipient. ...Abuse is violence as an outlet for anger whether consent is given or not. Or violence for pleasure without, consent or consensual non consent. In My home punishments are nonviolent... eg corner time, self flagellation, holding uncomfortable positions,  etc... A bottoms pain, I inflict, is for My sadistic pleasure and amusement alone. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Now psychological abuse is a very tangled ball of yarn when it comes to BDSM. Likely take an entire chapter to sort out. But, at the end of the day is the bottom at least content with its lot in life.... or... is its existence an intolerable nightmare it wishes would end... these are a pretty safe indicators of if the line has been crossed or not. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Discipline on the other hand can be its own category, or provide sadistic enjoyment, or be a camoflage for abuse. It can be violent or nonviolent, and is a means of controlling others behaviors. When... violent discipline... is delivered without anger and does not provide the disciplinarian pleasure it is its own category.  Nonviolent discipline... can be delivered in anger and be either phychologicaly abusive or not...remember the indicators? If discipline is delivered while meeting criteria for sadism it is ... sadistic discipline. Discipline utilizing violence and delivered in anger is ... abusive.

2/3/2023 1:32:53 AM: Importance of Employment During Longterm 'Enslavement.'By my definition, a slave doesn't marry a Master/Mistress.  One-day the slave will grow old and if they haven't met the work requirements for Social Security,  what happens when the Top dies?The slave is left destitute. As long as the requirements don't change they will qualify for Medicare, but will have no source of income... with two exceptions: 1) their Top is rich and has provided for them in a will, or 2) the Top marries the slave, then the slave would receive a portion of the Top's Social Security. Otherwise, after the Top's death the slave will be entering the work force without a significant work history and as a senior citizen. Odds of acquiring another Master will be low.Therefore, at a minimum a slave needs to be employed long enough to meet the work requirements for Social Security.  

2/3/2023 1:31:56 AM: Employment and Fiscal Security of bottomsEmployment of a bottom is discussed with the Master prior to cohabitation. Factors in slave employment include: -What jobs are the bottom qualified for?-What job may benefit household?-Is additional education needed?-Need for bottom to meet Social Security work requirements? Note finances will be kept separate as part of 'exit plan.' NOTE: 'exit plan' establishes slave has the financial means and physical ability to end relationship at will. This is an additional benefit of slaves' employment.

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