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I am a professionally successful, independent, intelligent and adventurous man who is looking for a sane, sober, centered, stable woman for a long term relationship.

My most recent relationship has lasted 10 years. Since this is over, I have decided to retire - and now I can live anywhere I want.

This particular relationship could be characterized as a power-sub situation. During this time, she has become very successful professionally. I have been very good for her but alas, it has ended. She was just an average woman when we met and now she is seen as a very powerful and successful woman in the world at large. In many ways, she has outgrown needing a man like me to guide and support her and thinks she can thrive without my demanding attitude around.

My prior arrangement of this nature last 13 years. That was more of a typical Master-slave situation. I ruled over her and pushed her to the limits. She was trained to need and crave intense humiliation and moderate pain. In the end, I became bored with the whole thing - and much prefer someone who I can have a vanilla life with outside the home.

I am very average looking, clean cut, healthy, and presentable. I do need someone who can pull their own weight in a relationship financially. I am no longer willing to support anyone financially.

Another thing - sex is the easy part. I am very kinky, adventurous, imaginative and have an above average sex drive so you will be sexually stretched, used, enjoyed and at time challenged. I am not particularly sadistic (but I do spank). I excel at humiliation and enjoy edging, teasing and a lot of mind fucking.

I am in no hurry. I am looking for what I need but it has to meet your needs too.