Well let's see now....

In my day to day I'm extremely easy going and chill, what most would call a nice guy. There is a dualism in myself though (which I believe exists in most if not all people) which manifests in the bedroom (or other rooms when in the bedroom mood). I am a sadist, I'm also sane, but understand I enjoy to hurt, humiliate and abuse. I want to see you cry and degrade yourself for me. I want to give impossible tasks just to punish you, or just hurt you for my amusement. I want to get to know you, your fears, your desires, your needs so I can exploit a deeply emotional resonance when I use you. I want to control, demand, play and use.

I've been in the lifestyle for several years. I use safe words (you should too). I'm not looking for any one thing, I've had some relationships only about pain, some only about discreet encounters, some involving more slavish routines and I like them all provided I have the opportunity to enjoy my particular proclivities. 

I enjoy bimbofication, hypnotism, objectification, humiliation, roleplay of various types. I love tears and sobs. I love to laugh as I abuse. I love to be begged, worshiped, feared and adored. I have pictures of me which I will give once I think you're not batshit crazy.

Feel free to write and ask me anything, I'm pretty open.