submissive with nearly 20 years of experience looking for a guiding domme. I have been lucky enough to have a few very serious D/s relationships over the years and have learned this isn't a kink for me- it is me. The vanilla stuff is more kinky and taboo now it seems. When I started this journey I just wanted some basic, standard as it seems submissive experiences. Now I've learned I need this, and need to provide my submission to a domme. 

with that said, what am I supposed to say here? I've been on this site long enough to be told no for every reason imaginable, few of which seemed sound and logical. So, I'm sure that even this writing will turn some away. Oh well. 

im highly educated with multiple degrees, gainfully employed and self-sufficient. Quite dominant in my professional world. And that only fuels what I know to be my passion for who I am as a submissive outside that world. 

I guess I can go on and simply list links, but that's no fun. I'd rather engage in conversation. I'm an open book. 

above all else, looking for friends and good conversations, too.