I don’t believe the be all and end all is fetish wear and toys, dungeon equipment etc…sometimes a word, a look, a sound is enough to send a chill through your spine...

Dominance displayed without respect, knowledge, and genuine connection isn't, for me, dominance at all. I believe strongly in taking the time to know someone on a personal level before trying to engage them on a D/s level. Having a woman open herself to submitting puts her in a vulnerable position, so it is a responsibility, and trust must be carefully built and protected. Beyond that, I require affection and companionship... a true relationship should have both, as play alone is not enough to sustain anything long term.

I am educated, stable, adventurous, and very open-minded. I also pay attention to everything. I don't just listen... I hear.

I do have a photo of myself, BUT will not post here on CM.  I will not hesitate to share photo's when the time is right