Time for an update:

I own a straight boy, it likes to image he's "straight", however its been in chastity 24/7 for nearly 4 years with only snippets of cock freedom. One of the best training tools was seperating its access to its cock - for that reason; if its cock is out of chastity the hands and arms are bond. it earns every release and a true orgasm is a very intense journey operating on a point system. Owning a sub doesn't mean I don't date, it just means I have a servant who will do anything from cooking and cleaning to lawn maintenance and a sexual outlet, but if I am dating casually or long term the sub would be strictly domestic. 

Be yourself, I am open to a variety of ideas - vanilla to extreme and a little of everything in between.

Contact info, name (given), feel like chatting KIK givitupson- have a face/body pic, no headless pics allowed (I don't ever share or post a picture of guys I talk with - confidences are an important aspect of  the dynamic and if I can't be trusted with a photo then we probably shouldn't be talking in the first place.

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Your a submissive - be proud of who you are and take a step forward - you've hidden for years but you've made it this far - send me a message. Communication is key, introduce yourself, send me a photo of yourself be candid,  think to yourself, could i post this to social media? If not I don't need to see it. It should have a head and body, no headless photos, no fuzzy photos and no "I'm to private to share a picture because of my job, please I did work one of "those jobs" wear privacy was a key factor and /I still had a photo, I refuse to accept that excuse. 

I am a very open to meeting and getting to know guys. Relationships, long term relationships are always sought after, I've found a lot of Dom/sub relationships become sessions but rarely stand the test of time. I don't know why but I'm amicable to a longer growing in depth vice always starting at the beginning.

We are all adults I expect a certain amount of professionalism and politeness - the whole do unto others speech comes to mind. SIR