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Not necessarily Dominant or submissive, but I do top and bottom depending on what inspires me in the relationship, though never both roles with the same person.�Started in the "lifestyle" about 10 years ago but out of the loop the past few years. Recently ended a long term casual / play relationship with a bottom type. I'm not interesting in chatting (or otherwise engaging) with men who are involed in a relationship unless the other party is fully aware and approving of their conduct. I didn't think that required clarification, but seems it does. Looking for a more traditional, well-rounded relationship that includes bdsm but where it is not the sole component.