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Hi. I’m sure not many people read these, but here goes anyway. You can call me Bea, in messages (especially the first message) being called Mistress or Miss or Ma’am when we don’t know each other is generally a turn-off and I won’t respond to those messages. I will also not respond to a typical: Hi I don’t know you but I want to be your sub/slave/etc. I like simple first messages, I like talking, having conversations, seeing if we have chemistry before anything else. The rest will follow from there or it won’t, it is as simple as that. I’m not going to pretend I have all the experience in the world because I don’t. I’m not new to the BDSM world; I’ve always been interested, at least since I was 17-18 I’d say. But I am still learning so keep that in mind. Inexperience is never a turn-off for me, I enjoy growing and learning with other people and if it is one for you then do not bother messaging me. First and foremost I like people I can have a conversation with. It doesn’t have to be intelligent; I’m not looking for a rocket scientist, I’m looking for a friend. Just talking about life, things we have in common, things we enjoy is fine. It’s what I prefer, actually. I like people who can stand on their own when they need to and who are strong when they need to be. I have a soft spot for sweet, shy submissive men and younger men as well. Though obviously since I’m only twenty-four it’s not some astonishing age gap but it’s still something I like, small as it may be. At the moment I’m only looking for something online-based. Talking on Kik (which I have decided would be the best way to communicate since I do not want to give my number out to someone I don’t know/trust). Skype is also a no until I trust you and we’re both comfortable with it (yes that means me, too, I won’t be pressured into anything I’m not 100% comfortable doing so if what you’re looking for is cam sessions, look elsewhere). Pictures are something that will come with time and they won’t be majorly identifying on my end, once again trust has to be earned, I do not freely give my trust to anyone. If something was to develop I would eventually be interested in meeting/relocation/etc. For now I’m only interested in experimenting 100% online so keep that in mind. I’m not the sort of person that equates being a domme with being loud and bitchy. In a scene that might be a different story (depending on what it is we want) but generally I’m just a normal person with a crass/crude sense of humor. I’m firm and demanding but that isn’t /all/ I am. So if what you’re looking for is someone to degrade/humiliate you 24/7 then once again, look elsewhere because that’s not my cup of tea, sorry.
I most likely will not message you first. If i'm interested I'll add you as a favorite and I'll know if you are interested in return by whether you message me or not. If you rather skip the site messaging my kik is: rocketsandwaterfalls. Start off by telling me something about yourself and we’ll see where it goes ;)