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If bigger, voluptuous girls arent your thing, its cool - theyre someone elses. )

Im not looking for anything fleeting or casual so please dont message me if youre just interested in sex. I am looking to make a connection and find my Daddy.

Im a submissive masochist who enjoys knives, blood, impact play, ddlg, humiliation, degradation and gaslighting, among many other things.

I like mean, sadistic men who are intelligent, well mannered, well versed in mind fuckery, emotionally stable and know the importance of balancing sadism with tenderness and nurturing.

I have been in the bdsm lifestyle since I was 18 and have never been with a vanilla partner so Im very in tune with my needs and desires and not willing to settle for less.

A bit more about me

I have a 12 year old son who lives with me fulltime
I have 2 cats
I run a horrorbdsm Tumblr blog
As indicated above, I am a full figured woman, but I am very confident and comfortable in my skin
I have a college diploma and am currently working on my second
I collect owls
into creepy things, horror and psychological thrillers
Je parle franais
I am close to my family and love children
I value honesty and open communication
Im a good cook
Im independent and self-reliant (I expect the same in a partner)
Im intelligent, sarcastic, pretty blunt but a huge sweetheart
I love to write and read
Im an avid gamer (PC console )
Batman Superman
Im selfless, compassionate, shy and sensitive
I prefer true crime docs over romcoms anyday
Im an animal nature lover
I can pump my own gas and know the difference between a Phillips and Robertson screwdriver

I like deep, stimulating discourse, but I also like silliness and flirtatious banter. Honesty and open communication are important to me the uninhibited flow of wants and needs. Trust is key in any relationship, but especially one which entails my particular brand of pleasure.

Contrary to what my profile may indicate, I am quite shy, initially, so I will rarely make the first move. If you are interested in getting to know me, please feel free to message me. I promise I am not nearly as intimidating as this novel may make me appear to be!