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I'd like to build a fun and satisfying relationship with a female sub.
You:
You want someone to show genuine interest and you will return it.
Me:
I'm an ethical, fun, empathetic, down-to-earth, intellectual, and creative guy. Mainly a dom, sometimes a daddy--a mix of a lot of things. I tend to be a problem-solver and mentor. I see myself as a decisive person who gets things done and takes care of what needs to happen... and enjoys helping my "people." Being dominant and caring is not a role for me, it is who I am.
I intentionally don't have the words "strong" or "master" in my name or description. I think if you have to use strong adjectives to advertise how powerful you are, then you're probably not. Real power is that power that one gives up to others and it is not to be abused. But don't mistake my approach for not being in command--whether it's sexually or otherwise. I am firm and wise.
Nilla Life:
I love outdoor activities and adventures, such as hiking, city-walking, exploring. I have eclectic taste in music, food, movies, art, etc. What matters is enjoying the person I'm with--enjoying their energy--more than what we're doing at any particular moment.
KINK/BDSM:
I have some experience in BDSM/kink. A former partner brought this out in me and showed me how it can be incorporated into a healthy relationship. I was also a part of an ownership team at a private BDSM sex club in Chicago (long story). That said, I am open to continually evolve, expand, and learn, which is what I've always done. I seek to control you (sexually), have adventures, explore fantasies & role play, and mainly have a lot of fun! But not before you feel safe, warm, and protected; I'm a romantic at heart.
Enjoying BDSM/Kink doesn't change any of the ethical rules that apply to all relationships. So, if you're interested in me, please recognize that it will be a chemistry thing, and we must relate well as people first.
If you've read this far and have an interest, send me a message and tell me about you.
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