Warning! 

Being new to this site you will run across some concerning individuals:  

Here are a few pointers and Red Flags:

1. Anyone writing you in the first 24 hours is spamming everyone.  I will always be praying on the weak and new.  

2. Women that hunt for a man are especially twisted and fain friendship to get their man anything he wants. 

3. If you new find community actives.  The Best Way is through dot com

4. If a user says he only plays private, it's a red flag.  

5. If he dose not have a profile on a place like the previous noted it's because he is burring through women in an unscrupulous way.  Or hiding something.  

6. Anyone that tell you that most Dom's are poly is attempting to manipulate you.One of the greatest joys of this lifestyle is the deep, sincere and utter trust that leads you to an intimacy deeper than any experienced in a Vanilla relationship.  

Yes, sometimes it's hard to find a match through all the fakes and wannabes but simply keep looking. 

Much luck on your journey

Warning! 

Anyone that tell you that most Dom's are poly is attempting to manipulate you.  One of the greatest joys of this lifestyle is the deep, sincere and utter trust that leads you to an intimacy deeper than any experienced in a Vanilla relationship.  

Yes, sometimes it's hard to find a match through all the fakes and wannabes but simply keep looking.  

Here are a few pointers and Red Flags:

1. Anyone writing you in the first 24 hours is spamming everyone.  I will always be praying on the weak and new.  

2. Women that hunt for a man are especially twisted and fain friendship to get there man anything he wants. 

3. If you new find community actives.  The Best Way is through dot com

4. If a user says he only plays private, it's a red flag.  

5. If he dose not have a profile on a place like the previous noted it's because he is burring through women in an unscrupulous way.  Or hiding something.  

Much luck on your journey

"I met you-know-who. No contest, you are far more interesting than you-know-who." 

 "I think she's a sweet girt, but dosen't know shit about who's better for her."

 "Then she's an idiot.  Please don't repeat that to her. But if that's the case she is."

If you are a serious woman seeking a Sir/Master or play partner and are new to the Life Style please be safe.  I strongly recommend getting a account and seeking a Submissive Safe space class.  Many of the men here are idiots, wantabe Masters/Sir with little real experience and know idea how to truly be men.   Please make a real friend or two on  If you want the names of wonderful submissive experienced women to help guide you on your path I will gladly give you names. 

"It is necessary to the happiness of man that he be mentally faithful to himself." - Thomas Paine