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anderist

I have lots of ideas, and I spend my time studying and learning.  I like to goof off with people when I feel comfortable around them, but I'm quiet and serious around strangers.  It's hard to be concise about my views:  I value reason, compassion, curiosity, originality, and irreverence.

Someday I'll be in a long-term relationship, probably one with a M/s dynamic.  For now I'm still exploring, and school is my most important priority (which may get in the way).  I want to say I'm looking for casual play, but I like the psychological aspects of BDSM more than the rest; I won't be doing much that can be described as "casual," or as "play." (Short term is great, but only if it's intense.)

I'll let my interests page speak for the rest of me, but first I want to emphasize that I like the unconventional and am suspicious of anything ordinary.  I hope to meet people who share that attitude.