I am already owned...by a very broadminded, loving, intelligent, compassionate, and generous master (XtremeMasterB)...and I am not seeking for a new master whatsoever coz I have nothing more to ask for and will never want to be owned by any other master...i'm just here to learn more about the culture...and have a better understanding of the behaviors of some master/mistress/submissive and slave...i believe that consent is the key word...no abuses...just as in any kind of relationship...give and take is important...my master takes me for what I am...i never feel abused by him...and we both hope that BDSM will be promoted with emphasis to consent, love, and broadmindedness...NOT abuse...