I am a generally happy guy, I work hard and don't play as much as I should but when I do I like to have fun.? I do have a serious devious dark side but only a few get to see that.? I appreciate perfection but don't expect it after all if you set your goals in the stars you will never reach them.
I feed off others energy, just because I don't quote the right phrase or regurgitate rules set by others does not make me less than what I am.? I am very private don't mind showing pics or talking but will probably never see me at a local BDSM gathering.?
I do not mind putting in the time or effort but understand if after a reasonable amount of time things do not progress offline I will cut my losses and move on.
Don't try so hard that is just plain annoying... Be yourself!! ?Hello are you real?? Just be fun and enthusiastic life is short enough so might as well and try and have a little fun...
Oh yeah always, always tell the truth no matter what.? You may like the answer to a lie in the short term but the long term effect will come back and bite you in the ass...? You must and should also be smart enough to get the right answer to what you want to know.
My experience: ?I live a rather normal vanilla life by choice, I have a professional job which I must maintain ethics, morals,?judgement so I am on here to let go of all of those things. ?I have had an interest in BDSM since 1997 and had my first?relationship?with a submissive woman in 1999 that lasted almost 6 years. ?She was married so it was a challenge not to do the things my mind wanted to do because of the marks that would be left. ?In 2002 I met another woman that was new to BDSM but turned out to be a pain slut and that is when I had one of the best relationships of my life. ?I dated her for three years until she moved away for a job. ?I learned a lot about myself and what I want/crave in a partner after that relationship. ?In 2009 I met another "married" woman that I dated for a year until she moved back home after a divorce, since 2011 I have met and "played" with a few women but not the mental connection I am looking for. ?I have a great interest in knots and enjoy trying to bind my partner in a fun playful style then inflict some pain on them, this is the only BDSM related reading I have done on the different forms of knot tying. ?I am a gray area kind of person outside of work, there is not much I have not done nor would I do.
