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Wysiwyg

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Single male 37 been in the lifestyle a couple of years now.

In an ideal world i would love to meet the one destiny has in store for me.

If that ends up being you then thats great and if not you have made a great friend.

I dont ask much from a partner/lover/sub.

The qualities i do look for in a woman are GSOH, intelligence, good communication, confident, tactile, and open minded towards new things.

I can offer you all of the above and much more.

I may not have much money but i would rather be poor and contented than rich and un-fullfilled.

So, if your looking for a man with qualities money cant buy then feel free to message me.

~if you get to know me and dont like me, thats fine, if you dont know me and dont like me, then you have a lot to learn~


10/7/2006 9:52:20 AM

Is it just me or do you get any messages from Doms/subs who seem to want to be your sub or Dom within weeks.

Someone once told me that the online D/s lifestyle was bullshit and i know what he meant.

Ive hung out in D/s chatrooms and seen people who have known eachother for a few weeks saying they are sub and master.

I struggle to see how you can have a D/s relationship online as it is due to the nature of the lifestyle especialy the physical side.

The only good side is it gives you the insight to see who are genuine and who arnt by their words and actions.





9/24/2006 8:03:57 AM
My pet peev for today is blank profiles.

Is it just me, or do you think they are pointless too?

If your new or dont know what to put then put that, but leaving a blank profile doesnt help anyone.

I am not saying you have to have a full profile and lots of pics, but make it easier for people by having at least a few lines about yourself.

I bet people with empty profiles check their empty message box daily and wonder why they get no messages lol.



9/19/2006 3:03:53 PM
I went to my first munch for about 12 months, and firstly i wanna thank Trev, if it wasnt for your email i would'nt have turned up, so thankyou.

I am really pleased for Trev and his sub lou-lou, He once told me the best things are worth waiting for, and he has found his best thing.

So, to Trev and lou-lou i tip my cap to you .

All in all it was a good night, saw some old faces and some new ones and even watched a dvd on breast bondage.

Beats a night down the pub you vanilla people lol.


9/16/2006 12:36:13 PM
Is it just me or do you think its rude when you take the time to send someone a message and they dont reply?

Not only do i reply to ALL messages but if someone doesnt want to chat to me, a simple no thankyou would do.

Come on people, quit the rudeness and ill manners and take 2 mins literally to reply to a message.
9/16/2006 3:15:26 AM
I decided to change my profile,anyone who saw it before will understand what i mean lol.

I decided to try and make it casual honest but serious, i can save the jokes for chatting.

I would appreciate any feedback as i am always open to peoples honest opinions.

thanks for listening and i look forward to any helpful feedback :)

9/9/2006 1:54:50 PM
Wanna hear something outstanding.

I got a message from a sub today and we chatted and after about 30 mins it got round to what job do i do.

At present i dont work due to a bad back and arthritis/osteo arhtritis and when she found out,she decided she didnt want to get to know me anymore in the way she wanted to before she found out.

Turns out she wants her Dom to be at least as slovent as she is.

Now am i being stupid or is that normal?

I was shocked that someone would stop getting to know someone else because they dont work.

Forget everything i could give her or do for her,that doesnt count for shit.

And women moan about men being shallow,what happened to personality/sense of humour being the most important thing in a guy ladies?

9/7/2006 6:12:45 AM

What is it about the vanilla world that makes a lot of them think its ok to take to piss out of fat people?

One thing i have noticed about these cowards is they never do it within arms reach lol.

If you got something to say have the balls to say it to someones face,not behind their back or from 50 feet away.

I am so glad this lifestyle is not like the rest of the world in that sense,one of the best things of this lifestyle is the variety of people and the fact that no one cares what you look like on the outside.

Its a shame the vanilla world  cant follow suit in that aspect and see people for who they are not what they are.