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| I am a bisexual switch. I am not too much into BDSM, I am more into spanking, Domestic Discipline, age play, and things like that. I'm not very dominant, nor am I very submissive. I am just me; a cynical, sarcastic single Mom who loves to give and receive spankings and is looking for accountability, affection, discipline, and a relationship. It doesn't matter if I am the Top or the bottom, I can give as well as take.
My need for spanking is an emotional one, when I get stressed or anxious (and I suffer from anxiety disorder), I slip into a bratty, stubborn, defiant teen persona without noticing. I am mostly looking for someone who will recognize when I've gone 'little' and treat me accordingly. I also test boundaries and push, push, push when given rules. Very hard to deal with and a lot of work. I know it is not likely that I will find someone who can deal with this, since I have realistic expectations.
This is how I can recognize others who need this kind of attention, discipline, consistency, and give it to them.
Okay, to clarify what I am looking for and who I am:
I am a noob to the lifestyle. I've been talking to people, reading, and chatting in groups for years now, but in real life, I basically have experience with spanking; giving and getting.
I am submissive naturally, in that I am caretaker to the world, but I am also used to having things done my own way.
So I need a sub/slave who is capable of making decisions, debating issues and outright arguing with me when I am wrong;
or;
I need a patient, kind, and gentle Dom/Domme who is capable of consistent, yet not overwhelming discipline.
I have a variety of interests, and would love to learn more. I always take care of my friends/relationships, but would like someone to take care of me now too.
If you have a laundry list of needs or demands, you are not for me. If you want to meet, see if we click, want to give or get a spanking, that's fine. But be ready and able to get into a relationship, because I am not looking for anything less.
Also be ready to take on a 12 yr old boy and a cat as well.
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I am looking, as my profile states, for a relationship.
That means:
-Thank you for the offer to beat your ass, but I'm not interested in that.
-Thank you for the offer of coffee, with a blow job for you as the follow-up, but I'm not interested in that.
-Thank you for the offer of experimenting on you to learn new things, but I'm not interested in that.
-Thank you for the nice words about my profile, but I'm not interested in someone who is not close to my age.
-Thank you for the nice words about my profile, but I am pretty sure we cannot force my profile and yours, which is totally different than mine, into the same space. |
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