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I've been involved in the lifestyle for about 6 months now. I have a decent idea about what I like and what I don't within the lifestyle. I'm sure there is more to explore and I am open to that, but I have a good idea on what my harder limits are. I'm very sub in the bedroom - love being with a strong minded man who knows what he wants and can listen to the clues of what I want and need as well. ( I know, a lot to ask right ) I want to be with someone who respects me as much as he expects me to respect him. That will only come when I feel like I can trust him and know he listens and at least trys to understand me and my desires. I'm not into extreme pain. Sure, spanking is fun - caning was not. I enjoy rough sex with a man who knows what he wants and how to use it to pleasure us both. I guess I am more sub than slave ( although I do love the feel of a collar on ). I do enjoy bondage with someone I trust. The feel of the leather and the feeling of giving up control is wonderful! I'm fun and love to laugh. I try to bring with me happiness and good feeling where ever I go. I'm not Barbie, but I'm not BBW - I'd place myself more in the middle. I have had a few bi-sexual experiences which I have enjoyed to a certain level, but I prefer cock more. I'm looking to find someone who is willing to consider a long term relationship if we click. I'm looking for someone that I can do things with outside the bedroom as well. Contact me and let's see if we click. Married men, please keep going - my idea of a long term relationship is not having to send you home to the wife at the end of the day. No offense meant to those who live that life, it's just not for me - so why put us both through that.