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| 6'2" of scruffy, hairy, dangerously honest, fiercely caring manbear.
First off, I'm not 'a sub' and I'm not 'a Dom'. I'm not an anything, apart from a ME.
I love being teased, humiliated made to obsess about wonderful people I have let into the deepest corners of my mind.
And I also love to see helpless submissives squirm under the authority of my voice, beg me, plead me... Scream as I spank them...
But I don't let either of things define me. I'm much more than just a role.
Turn offs:
Findoms (at least prostitutes actually do some work...). Text speak, being superficial, fake tan, prejudice, conservativism, girls who say 'babez'. Medical play, needles, BDSM as a mask for sexism.
Turn ons:
Alternative culture: dreadlocks, hippies, glasses, colourful hair, piercings, geeks and freaks. Honesty. Over analysing things. Rambling conversations. Nature. Psychedelia. Live music. Relationships grown through shared experiences. Teasing. Roleplay. Pushing boundaries with respect and a wicked smile.
Ideally looking for:
- A sub who is confident enough to know what they want, but still needs help making it real: I have a lot of patience for the shy, nervous or inexperienced.
- A Domme who has the basic respect to treat me like a human being, not just a paycheck or an ego boost.
-Either of the above who might want to meet my wonderful lover for potential group fun.
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I'm fascinated by the pyschology of BDSM, curious to try as much as I can, and make meaningful, positive kinky relationships that REALLY WORK.
So if you're fun, genuine and above all COMMUNICATIVE, then you might just be what I'm looking for :)
I'm polyamorous, but believe that all relationships need a foundation of empathy and mutual interests that extend beyond the bedroom. This article sums up my feelings on polyamory pretty amazingly: http://sensanostra.com/not-fucking-around-polyamory…
Since joining here last year I've met someone very special. Though she lives miles away, we are embarrassingly happy exploring kink, each other and ourselves. I love her deeply, and that isn't about to change. That said, our love is built firmly on the premise that if you love someone, you should allow them to freely to explore all that life has to offer. Including other meaningful relationships.
We are also open to the possibility of meeting new people as a couple, if it feels right. But it's not something we're willing to force.
Anyway, I've rambled on enough here. Anything else you want to know - drop me a message and say hello :D
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