To many "Doms"  on this site seem to not know the meaning of the term. They look for mindless sluts to appease them in bed and in life, "Do my dishes, bend over and take it, let me get off and I don't care if you finish,". In truth it's not only the fault of these men, it's the fault of the woman that allow it. There are simple rules I believe should be followed in any proper D/s relationship, it's all give and take, a beautiful thing really if done correctly. One rather rudimentary and simple example, yet fundamental in essence, is,  "I will do your dishes, if you pay for my manicure to keep my nails nice from the detergent soap,". It sounds silly, but its all a part of it. The woman should be more than happy to appease their Dom and respect them by keeping their home clean, while the Dom should be more than happy to provide for their Sub and keep her in pristine condition for his enjoyment and flaunting (no quality couple wants a sloppy mate). The disrespect astounds me,

- V.

To my friends on here, I got Skype and ditched my old Yahoo. Yes it finally happened, don't fuck with me about it :) you know who you are. Hmu for the new information,

- V.

On my profile I identify as a Switch yet state I want a strong male Dom, because of this Ive gotten a ridiculous amount of messages asking me to clarify. I find strong male Alphas superlative and will happily submit to a real man. Otherwise I have a very Dom personality when it comes to weaker personalities both in bed and socially, I need a man that can handle me. I want an Alpha I can respect and appreciate and that can respect and appreciate my femininity and strong sensuality. I will submit to a true Alpha completely, a Dom that rules through his masculinity and sensuality, raw and primal. Some one that can match and exceed me. I hope this explains better what I want to those interested, to other I wish you luck in finding what you want.