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I'm a single white Dominant male, 29 years old, 5'10'', 205 pounds (muscular), and very clean cut in appearance. I live a vanilla life, but love the lifestyle in private. I'm financially secure and have my own apartment, car, etc. I enjoy weightlifting, going to movies and concerts, the beach, and just hanging out and talking. I'm also currently obtaining a PhD in a very technical field and find conversing on science and mathematics enjoyable.
I'm looking for a submissive woman for a 24/7 relationship built on trust and intimacy. I am attracted to women who are naturally submissive and truly seek to please their man. I'm into a lot of aspects of Ms/Ds and find enormous enjoyment in controlling my sub and allowing her to express her natural desire to serve and obey me. What I enjoy most about such a relationship is the position of trust and respect which I am in. I take my position as Dominant quite seriously and always strive to be a man that you can look up to and feel safe with. I desire a woman who will be my companion, friend, and lover. I want her to share my life with me.
I should point out however, that I have no interest in a submissive who demands to be equal or will not submit to me on a fundamental level. Of course it takes time for a sufficient sense of trust to develop to allow her to genuinely yield to me, and I have no trouble being patient, but if this is not truly an option for her, then there is no point in us wasting time with each other. Within a relationship I always seek to do what is best for my sub. I will protect you, provide for you, support and encourage you; and if things progress far enough, I will love you and bind myself to you. But, I will always be in a position of Dominance over you and you will always be under my authority. I will value you above all else, but equality will never exist between us. Please consider this when making a decision about whether to pursue a relationship with me.
As to play, I am open to most anything, though I prefer bondage (all types), chastity, corsets, collars, leashes, orgasm denial and control, spanking, electrical play, and submission positions. I always play safe and respect limits. I like play to be enjoyable for both of us. I should point out however that I'm not one who is fixated on play. What I desire is the power exchange that exists within a strong D/s or M/s relationship, not some particular act involving implements. Thus, play is icing on the cake for me. Nice, but not what it's really about.
I've read a number of profiles on here and one thing I've noticed is that women have a lot of trouble finding men who are single and emotionally available. I'm sorry that this seems to be the case, but I will state that this isn't a problem for me. I would love to find the right one and build a real relationship with her, not just one based on BDSM and kink. If this is you, feel free to message me and we'll talk. I feel that I have a lot to offer in a relationship and a very promising life ahead of me, so if you feel that we may be right for each other, I'd be happy to get to know you. Anyway, thanks for reading. Take care.
PLEASE NOTE:
I understand that a lot of subs have been hurt in the past and have their guard up with new guys. I know that this is a natural tendency of most people who have been hurt. However, I must be honest and say that when a submissive acts overly "tough" or distrusting, it is a major turn-off for me. Please know that I am not approaching you as some piece of meat to screw, or another conquest to string along and discard when I bore of you. You are a human being and if I am courting you, then it is with the intention of having a fulfilling relationship with you. I want to find a woman who will be my best friend and lover. Someone who will live my life with me. So, if you are capable of it in any way, please attempt to approach me with an open mind and heart. I do not judge people who have been hurt and try to make allowances for how that may have affected them. But, it isn't very attractive when I feel that a submissive wants me to know how tough they are and makes me feel like I must jump through a ring of fire before they will trust me. That isn't how things are supposed to be done. We are supposed to get to know each other as people, and if we feel that we will be happy with each other, then you will yield to my authority and become my submissive. Thank you for trying to accommodate me on this point.
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