Hello--I am currently seeking a Local relationship with someone who will enjoy activities with me in and out of the bedroom. I am NOT seeking playmates for fun--please don't contact me for that reason--thank you. I also prefer someone who has the ability to switch-- I am interested in couples, women and groupls once in awhile. A hello is always welcome.

I am very diversified. I am very sexual from mild to wild. I am extremely playful in every part of my being.Please look at my profile for details.I love a variety of sexual play from erotic massage and Tantra to dicipline and electric play, music and cuisine. I am a night owl and I function on auto pilot in the morning LOL! I am easy going, no drama, great sense of humor. I have very good communication skills, no games. I have a playfull personality, very young at heart--don't look or act my age. Feminine yet quite the tomboy at heart.

I am self-employed---which allows me flexibility in my schedule, yet it is still a very hectic schedule. I'd also like to mention I do not live on my computer, therefore, it may take me a few days at times to respond.

My social life exist usually in the evening and on weekends. Please do not contact me to be a daytime playmate---I'm only interested in finding someone who is available nights and weekends with the hope of developing a relationship. I am usually available after 9 pm. I go to bed between 1 & 3 am. Though I love the BDSM play--I am not interested in being someones Slave or Being Trained.--I enjoy being a switch , however, I make an excellent Sub. Unfortunately we need to pick Titles for sorting means on this site.

I usually try to get away for a night or two. I seek someone with an active lifestyle to enjoy the outdoors with me, work out in the gym and maybe enjoy some martial arts. If you don't already lead a physically active life outdoors--please don't contact me. I enjoy activities from the mts. to the ocean. I camp, hike, kayak, bike, swim, winter sports and water sports.
I love to go out dancing. I listen to a variety of music, sorry I don't care for country. I also have experience as a ballroom dancer. I love to cook and dining out is an adventure to a variety of cuisine.

I am not interested in one night stands or married men. Please do not request me to be on your friends list unless we have met and developed a friendship. To those who are younger than 35 and interested--thank you--it is a compliment, however, you are too young for me to be involved in a long term relationship.

I'm sorry my time is limited on the computer and I will only be able to respond to those who live nearby. If you do not have a photo posted please be able to provide one within a reasonable amount of time and PLEASE have it be fairly recent within a yr or two not 20 !!!! LOL If you send me a photo that doesn't look like you presently I will feel mislead, lied to, and know that you don't have good self-esteem or confidence. You should feel good about yourself, even if you're overweight or bald. Who you are is most important.

I have received many request to communicate by messenger or phone, which is fine if we can make it past first base. I find there is a lot of communication that doesn't go anywhere except into the land of endless non-sense e mails. LOL. If you really want me to take an interest in you and your profile does not tell me much about your interest --then it is most important that you tell me about yourself and your interest, especially answer specific questions that I ask--instead of the constant going back and forth and getting nowhere. My time on the computer is very limited....The only interest I may take in a pen pal would be because of strong communication, interest and shared growth.



If I have sparked an interest and you would like to know more...write me and I will respond.